I met a guy on the net and we went to movie. We had a few things in common and we were supposed to get together last Friday night and work on one of my businesses and have dinner. Friday came and I was having a lot of inflammation in my neck from therapy and had to keep it iced and thought I needed to go to the hospital and get a Toradol injection. The ER visit wouldn't really take that long since they know me. I needed a driver and it should have only taken 45 to 90 minutes. So I asked the guy to take me to the ER and hang with me . He didn't want to. In the past and present men treat me very well and would take me to the ER and hang with me . I guess I didn't realize what a hassle it would seem like to him but we could still see each other and talk while I was waiting and whatnot. I thought it was reasonable. I am trying to see if I am a little spoiled by very kind friends who are not the norm or if this guy is a "fair weather " friend. Almost everyone who knows me has been to the hospital with me. I am very blessed to have wonderful friends. I am trying to decide how I feel about the Fair Weather Guy. I thought maybe he considers me a potential convenient piece of ass since he acted like he really liked me but couldn't hang out with me in the ER. I want feedback because I want to know if maybe my expectations are too high or if I am right and should not lower my standards. I set my standards by what I am used to. My medical needs have intruded on my dating before but they always just went along with it. Am I a little spoiled or is this just how anyone treats someone they really want to build a friendship with? What do you think?