What do you consider to be a small dick?

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What do you consider to be a small penis?

I am asking just to understand better people's expectations because it seems that penis size categories vary depending on who you ask. If I ask a straight guy, usually the answers vary, but it seems like someone in the 6 inches even if not considered big by most guys, it's still considered a good size. On the other hand, most gay guys, in my experience, tend to consider small, not average, SMALL anything below 7 inches. And when I ask some of my girlfriends, their expectations are way off, like they expect most guys to have 7 to 8 inches. Also, a soft dick is hard to judge. Some people tend to forget the whole grower and shower aspect.

How do you categorize small, average, or big? Do you take girth into consideration or just the length?
 

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What do you consider to be a small penis?

I am asking just to understand better people's expectations because it seems that penis size categories vary depending on who you ask. If I ask a straight guy, usually the answers vary, but it seems like someone in the 6 inches even if not considered big by most guys, it's still considered a good size. On the other hand, most gay guys, in my experience, tend to consider small, not average, SMALL anything below 7 inches. And when I ask some of my girlfriends, their expectations are way off, like they expect most guys to have 7 to 8 inches. Also, a soft dick is hard to judge. Some people tend to forget the whole grower and shower aspect.

How do you categorize small, average, or big? Do you take girth into consideration or just the length?
mine is small flacid but average when on jack.
I like small cocks , particularly Thai ladyboys
 
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Anything less than 5 inches is small and anything over 7 is large. To me average is around 6. If you are 7+ you are very well endowed and larger than the average man. I'm sure many will argue with that but I think guys exaggerate their size.
 
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Since I was raised with the metric system, I consider a round number like 10 cm (about 4 inches, I guess) as a reference value. But we can go up to 12 cm (4.7 inches).
 
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It all depends man. On her experience if she's been with guys 7 to 8 inches than anything below that is small. As far as studies goes anything below 5 to 5 1/2 is small. In reality before I started pumping I was more or less regarded as small by most woman. They don't have to flat out tell you most times. They just weren't satisfied. Some did say it was to complain but looking back on it it shouldn't have stung as much as it did. It's like one woman told me just "own it".
 
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It all depends man. On her experience if she's been with guys 7 to 8 inches than anything below that is small. As far as studies goes anything below 5 to 5 1/2 is small. In reality before I started pumping I was more or less regarded as small by most woman. They don't have to flat out tell you most times. They just weren't satisfied. Some did say it was to complain but looking back on it it shouldn't have stung as much as it did. It's like one woman told me just "own it".
What size were you when they regarded you as small?
 

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A little more than 5.5 inches
Im barely 6" NBP due to my fat pad and honestly think most women would consider me small also nowadays. My BP length is over 7" but that doesn't seem to matter to most. A mediocre 5" girth does help the situation either though. Luckily my wife was a virgin and as far as I know doesn't watch porn so she likely doesn't realize what she is missing out on dick wise.

BTW you look way bigger in your pics. I never could understand why your name is what it is. If that is considered small things are worse off than I originally thought. What size are you now?
 
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Im barely 6" NBP due to my fat pad and honestly think most women would consider me small also nowadays. My BP length is over 7" but that doesn't seem to matter to most. A mediocre 5" girth does help the situation either though. Luckily my wife was a virgin and as far as I know doesn't watch porn so she likely doesn't realize what she is missing out on dick wise.

BTW you look way bigger in your pics. I never could understand why your name is what it is. If that is considered small things are worse off than I originally thought. What size are you now?
Right now not pressing into the fat pad about a little more than 6. That's usually Post pump though. I can reach close to 6 and 1/2 if I go 4 days straight with the pump and certain supplements. The girth does get to 5.25 midshaft with the pump which helps me seem more "average". It's like I've said though it depends on the woman. I like thick white woman with big nice round asses so maybe they've experienced bigger??? Idk I have some theories on that. Most have been super sloppy wet though maybe that contributes to it.
 
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I measure 5" x 5.5" erect, 2.75" x 4.5" flaccid

repeatedly I've been referred to as "short" but with "good girth"

I've seen many many black males naked throughout my life and have consistently found I'm among the few with a flaccid that sits up on his balls

In threesums, sex with other men, and seeing buddie's sextapes in various ways throughout my life, I've noitced at very least they come in around 6.5/7 inches. I've consistently been the shortest.
 
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Pro tip:
Guys... Lose the fat pad (the best you can). How much is it worth to add almost an inch to your cock without surgery or stretching contraptions? Your partner will think you grew an inch. And yes it, will go in deeper.

Just a thought.
 

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I measure 5" x 5.5" erect, 2.75" x 4.5" flaccid

repeatedly I've been referred to as "short" but with "good girth"

I've seen many many black males naked throughout my life and have consistently found I'm among the few with a flaccid that sits up on his balls

In threesums, sex with other men, and seeing buddie's sextapes in various ways throughout my life, I've noitced at very least they come in around 6.5/7 inches. I've consistently been the shortest.
Around 7" being the norm (assuming NBP)does seem to be a reoccurring theme from what I have seen here. At least from the gay guys, which seem to be the best information source on the subject. It doesn't seem to be anywhere near as uncommon as the size studies lead us to believe. Some claim high 90th percentile.

5.1" to 5.5" being average as the studies claim seem rather dubious especially considering it has been claimed those are bone pressed lengths. I quite frankly think their numbers are irrelevant anyways when in the real world woman (and men) likely perceive even the studies "above average" lengths to be sub standard. The studies don't mean jack when everyone is going to think your small anyways and virtually everyone they have been with has been larger.
 
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Around 7" being the norm (assuming NBP)does seem to be a reoccurring theme from what I have seen here. At least from the gay guys, which seem to be the best information source on the subject. It doesn't seem to be anywhere near as uncommon as the size studies lead us to believe. Some claim high 90th percentile.

5.1" to 5.5" being average as the studies claim seem rather dubious especially considering it has been claimed those are bone pressed lengths. I quite frankly think their numbers are irrelevant anyways when in the real world woman (and men) likely perceive even the studies "above average" lengths to be sub standard. The studies don't mean jack when everyone is going to think your small anyways and virtually everyone they have been with has been larger.

I agree. I don't go by studies either. You don't know who they're asking, where they're getting participants from, and what motive they may have.

No way 5 to 5.5 is avg length. I truly believe the avg white man is around 6 erect, the avg black man 6.5/7
 

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Around 7" being the norm (assuming NBP)does seem to be a reoccurring theme from what I have seen here. At least from the gay guys, which seem to be the best information source on the subject. It doesn't seem to be anywhere near as uncommon as the size studies lead us to believe. Some claim high 90th percentile.

5.1" to 5.5" being average as the studies claim seem rather dubious especially considering it has been claimed those are bone pressed lengths. I quite frankly think their numbers are irrelevant anyways when in the real world woman (and men) likely perceive even the studies "above average" lengths to be sub standard. The studies don't mean jack when everyone is going to think your small anyways and virtually everyone they have been with has been larger.
Exactly.
 

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My gf says in her experience average is 4-5 and she doesn’t really know girth right off the top of her head but said she could give a range for width and that’s 1-1.75 wide more around 1.25. And I’m decently big at 7.75x5 and she absolutely could care less ab size as long as it isn’t too big, she says 95% of girls r this way too. She’s also 23 and very beautiful so she has had her fair choice of guys and I lucked up being very attractive myself so I was able to attract her and we connected, I say all this bc she said she wasn’t worried ab my size at any point before we became intimate, sorry for the long post but I say all this bc I used to worry I was small and being attractive I still missed opportunities bc I worried ab it, come to find out I was pretty big and as it also turns out…it’s true what girls say, it doesn’t matter bc they won’t cum from sex anyway and the vagina is a muscle and it contracts to what’s in it, so she says that in the end even between below average and big there’s not much sensation difference
 
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