What do you do when you meet another LPSG member?

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  1. B_Think_Kink

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    Other than being able to cut the sexual tension with a knife... what the heck do you do?:tongue:


    I should clarify... I'm going to meet the hottest guy I've ever seen...
     
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    get naked of course! lol
     
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    I'm having lunch with an LPSG member tomorrow. I don't think we're going to get naked at the restaurant, nor do I think his GF (also an LPSG member) would like it, but come to think of it, neither would I. lol
     
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    Yeah that might not work out so good. Have a good lunch date!
     
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    Have you considered giving them a big hug and saying hi?

    I know it sounds crazy... but it just might be enough. I remember the first time I met people from here. I was so nervous I was quiet.

    But, I gave them a hug, and all my worries vanished.
     
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    Is it any different than meeting a non-lpsg member? Have you set such high expectations on the hook up that now its become a worry? Just curious...
     
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    Hugging him is what I want to do before anything!! I love hugs, so I didn't forget about that. Yay for hugs!
     
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    Nah it's going to be pretty chill I hope, we're both not high strung people.


    But I'm asking what people do when they first meet someone... like go for coffee? long walks.. lol stuff like that.
     
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    Well, I'll tell ya. I met OC awhile back and I met once of the nicest men I have ever met. So I hope your meeting goes as well with your new friend
     
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    We fucked - for several hours. Best sex ever :yup:

    That was the first LPSG member I met.

    The second, we had a very nice dinner and some very interesting and fun conversation. No sex, but that was never the intention. And speak of the devil... :smile:

    You're dern tootin, young man!! There will be no getting naked! (til I'm there with a camera :wink:)

    Didn't have sex with Exwhysee or K8 either... I'm not much of an opportunist. :rolleyes:
     
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    Well the next time you're here, we can all get naked together and we'll invite Exwhysee down to meat us, I mean, meet us. :wink:
     
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    If I ever met a lady from here... meet some place public for the ice breaker (eg. bar, restaurant, etc), then visit a place of mutual interest (like a museum, park) and let the experience run its own course from there.
     
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    Whoops, misunderstood the question!
     
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    I've met 6-8 guys from the LPSG, with quite a few more who I'd like to meet someday if my travels take me to their neck of the woods. Generally we've met for lunch or dinner (as with any web-originated meeting, public = good). On one occasion dinner was followed up by "Fahrenheit 9/11" at the local cineplex. Once I met a fellow weightlifter from the site at a local gym.

    In most cases I have just met people once -- either because we don't live near each other, or because we didn't hit it off as well in person as we did online. Fahrenheit 9/11 guy, for example, went all drama queen on me and said I was too attractive to be "just friends" ... despite knowing from the start that I was straight and happily married. :confused:

    I did become hiking buddies with one LPSG guy. We went on about a dozen hikes together back in 2005-06 before he had to sell his car, which made it hard for us to meet up. We met again for dinner a few months ago, just to catch up. I'm sorry that I don't have him for a hiking partner anymore.

    My meet-ups have all been platonic (contrary to conventional wisdom about LPSG meetings!) The hiking partner and I did eventually show each other our flaccid selves after a number of hikes together ... hardly the stuff of LPSG "Fictitious Stories" threads.

    Yes, there are awkward moments at the start, but I imagine that's true of meeting the real-life version of any online alter ego. With luck, you move past that reasonably quickly and can interact more or less like ordinary people. Which is, after all, what most people here on the LPSG are.

    Steve
     
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    I would like to meet other members but have no desire for a hookup. I just wonder what some of my pals on here are like in real life.
     
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    Well Duh! Most people you meet you haven't already seen nekkid or discussed sexual proclivities with them.

    When I met Jovial he took me on a tour of the town and to lunch. I'd never been to that part of southern California before. Also, I've been living inland for a while now so it was nice to see the ocean again. :smile:
     
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    i'd say "show me yours and i'll show u mine".
     
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    Cockfight!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Nothing sexual I think.

    More like welcome in my country.
    Showing cool stuff in my country, showing things out of my daily life.
    Let them taste typical dishes from here. Hang out and sharing stuff etc.
     
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    Not something I'll ever have to worry about... have neither the inclination nor the confidence to be meeting up with any of the lpsg guys lol
     
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