I'd start out with something like coffee where you can have a good conversation and let the nervousness, if any, fade. :smile:
I've met several very chill people from LPSG, and with all but one (that was purely sexual), we did the coffee, lunch, drinks, or dinner thing. One other, we hit pride week.
One that I now consider to be a very close friend, we went out, chilled at each other's apartments, and did walks through Central Park and talked... a lot.
So far, I have lunch and clubbing planned for two more this year (no sexual tension/desire there for either), but with any others, I'll stay with the same lunch, drink, dinner thing.
Have fun! :fingersx: