i've always wondered what others do when they're having sex with their partner. obviously when you're doing the penetrating, you're cock is busy...but what about when you're "receiving?" usually when we start i'm rock hard and stroking it, but then as we get into it, i lose my boner. does this happen to anyone else? i dont lose the sensation, i just get soft. around the time when my bf is about to cum, he'll jerk me off until i blow my load.