What do you enjoy most about giving/receiving a blowjob?

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  1. Misunderstood Lad

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    I find it more intense than intercourse though not quite as emotionally satisfying. If I had to choose, I could not. Both are special in their own ways.
     
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    I like the beginning, the end, and everything that goes on between. Been so long since I've encountered anyone who could make me cum with her oral skills that I've forgotten about that part.
     
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    I dont know if you are a piece of cake object or a very difficult assignment...Mr. HickbadBoy...I wish your desires comes true soon.

    Anyways I can never be good at it bcause he/me/we rush to penetration...

    :tongue: Each one us have our preferences...lol...
     
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    I'm a receiver!

    I like to see her making so much effort to give me pleasure, I really like it when she looks up at me while licking my cock and teasing it to check on my enjoyment.
    It is great for my ego to see that her head is a smaller in height than my dick and that her small hands can barely wrap around it.
    When she tries to deep throat and the sensations increase it is amazing and when she starts gripping tighter and speeding up the hand and head movements, I love it that I am in more control of how long it will last until I come compared to intercourse.
    When she varies the stimulation to surprise me it is a real turn on. Watching the action in the mirror adds another dimension (we are the porn stars!).
    Of course then there's the climax, when she swallows and gets all excited that she made it happen - WOW!! Then WOW... WOW... WOW... WOW!! when she keeps sucking post orgasm!!
    All this pleasure almost anywhere, anytime with relative discretion.

    I don't have anyone to give me one now and thinking about it has given me a raging hard on, I'll be back in a mo....:wank:
     
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    I like the feeling of being in control of him for that short time. When his cock is im my mouth its me who chooses the intensity, the pressure, the speed.

    Feeling his whole body react because my actions. Feeling his whole body tighten and stretch slightly as i get faster and harder and then suddenly slow right down to a slow and sensual suck or stroke and see hm relax and sink back into his seat.

    Not to mention the groaning and the look on his face when i look up and see nothing but total pleasure in his eyes and the smile of satisfaction, knowing that im responsible for that is amazing and it makes me only want to go at his cock with even more velosity.

    And having his cock in my mouth is a different kind of pleasure i find for myself that i really cant explain. Its not a control or satisfying him thing but somehow he is satisfying me by just being and wanting to be in my mouth. Having him stretch my lips to their limits and him hitting the back of my throat, tasting his pre-cum then him cumming in my mouth is a Huge turn on.

    And after he has cum and he has finished the groaning, shaking, the look on his face is of such satifaction like he is the biggest and only man in the world....Its so cute
     
  6. Misunderstood Lad

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    Yeah, the swallowing thing is huge. I can't really put in words why, but knowing she is swallowing me is just a monster turn-on. It's primal.
     
  7. transformer_99

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    Even though I'd be the recipient of fellatio, I'd rather have the intercourse hands down. I'm actually probably weird about it. The idea of a blowjob, her mouth, my penix, semen and the rest of it turns me off. The whole kissing thing afterward. That's another reason I avoid anal. Now, eat p*ssy, I'm anxious, even though that thing can get awful nasty. See that's the weird part. So if a woman wants to give me head, sure wth, if it gets her going. Maybe I'm a pleaser, will go along or do something that might not be the most enjoyable sexual task. I really don't know how good I am at eating p*ssy, from what I observe they seem to enjoy it. So I guess I'm relatively competent at it.
     
  8. Mackleanen Beebarf

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    Q: What's the best thing about getting a blow job?
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    A: A few minutes of peace and quiet. :biggrin1:
     
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    It is the intimacy that I love. And cumming in someone's mouth - what a turn on! Especially if every last drop is swallowed.:smile: :tongue: :biggrin1:

    Unfortunately, my wife is not into giving me too much head:mad:
     
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    My wife asks me a variant of this question ("why do you like them so much?")--sometimes in exasperation. My replies used to be stunningly inarticulate, coming as they did in a post-BJ glow. I finally got to thinking of a bunch of reasons, and when she sucked me and asked me the other night, I told her that her blowjobs magnify the intensity of my erection. More so than with intercourse, the stimulation is like a slow fuse--I can feel the orgasm coming on for a few minutes and everything builds to an explosive finish. Life is pretty incredible in those few minutes.
     
  11. transformer_99

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    "Unfortunately, my wife is not into giving me too much head"

    See, I think for the most part women do it to placate their guy. Men do things too to placate their women. Inevitably if you're not into it 100%, it becomes a loathesome chore.
     
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    :069: :wow: I couldn't describe it any better than you just did plus if she super soft long pointy tongue. P.S. if she swallows does that make her a caneibual?
     
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    Get out of my head :biggrin1: . I couldn't have said this better if I'd have written this post. Now I know what it's like to be totally understood when it comes to why I love giving head.

    Hugs and Kisses,

    Karmen
     
  14. Mr. Snakey

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    I allways have a lot of sperm in me Im horsehung and need to be drained daily It takes the pressure off my back and makes it so my dick isnt too heavy My girfriend looks foward to a huge load of man milk down her throat every day Even in her coffee sometimes:cool:
     
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    If he reacts positively to my oral works, it's always a pleasure; I like this feeling of control that blowjobs give me. Lick and suck until all he can think about is release, then give him some more before you offer him your treasure cave. Turns men into highly-tuned fuck bulls, IF they survive the blowjob phase without orgasming. Of course, that's a challenge, to take him for a walk on the edge like this. I also enjoy the many ways in which pleasure can be heightened, by using hands, and looks, to add something to the things my lips and tongue do. Speaking of hands, it's always a treat for me if a guy has a tight ass, so I can put them there for some massaging, a light spanking, or just use them as handles to control his rhythm.
     
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    Now that was a damn good answer! And I really like your insight into how men respond and how "not" to take them too far.
     
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    I love giving head...especially if the guy is uncut. I love deep-throating and I always swallow every drop. Receiving is ok, but not the most important thing...hand jobs can be fun too!

    Althugh I am gay, I was married for 12 years. I performed cunnulingus on my wife and also a couple of girlfriends I dated before marriage. i HATED it! For some reason it felt 'yucky'to me, yet fellatio never gave me that feeling. Perhaps that was an indicator of my gayness!!!
     
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    My wife could not start the day without draining me dry. The sound of her gulping it down was like Beethoven to me. She deep-throated every inch, despite my size and swallowed every drop. That to me was heaven.
     
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    Hmmm, she's not trying hard enough. :wink:
     
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    Exactly, she should be quiet for an hour!:rolleyes:
     
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