Hey everyone, I just want to see what an outsiders view is of this situation I am in. I have a buddy who I went to high school with but we weren't friends back then. He was a year younger and I kind of knew who he was and he might have known who I was but that was it. After coming back from college a couple years ago, we have gradually started to hang out more often. Not one on one but we are in the same group of friends now so we do see each other more often and we are just normal buddy's now. We can talk with each other, call each other nicknames so yeah we are close but still don't hang out just us two. Anyways, I have been noticing that he makes comments that make me curious on what his motives are. For example, tonight we were at a buddy's party and there was a keg. He was filling my cup and I said, "I'll pump it for you" meaning the keg so the beer flows out better. He comes back with, "Oh yeah pump me good...ahh that feels so good." Over the summer, a group of us guys went on a weekend vacation together. I started talking to this girl and we hit it off. She was hanging out with us and it was pretty obvious at a point that we were going to hook up and he said to me how we should tag team her. It didn't happen but he did try talking to her to see if it could happen but in the end it was just me who went back to her place. It's kind of been a "joke" since and we kid around about tag teaming a chick. I guess it might just be conversation but he always has comments like the "pump me good" when it is just us two. When any other friends are around he doesn't say anything like that. It's only when it is only him and I then he'll throw out sexual comments like that. So, with that knowledge of the situation, what do you guys think? Is he bi and hitting on me in some way or is he just making conversation? Thanks!