what do you guys think of getting married

what is your take of marriage straight or gay

  • marriage is the best thing ever invented

    Votes: 5 16.7%
  • marriage is a dangerous thing but with the right person is okay

    Votes: 18 60.0%
  • even with the right person sometimes sucks

    Votes: 2 6.7%
  • i will not get marry ever !

    Votes: 5 16.7%

  • Total voters
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i was surprised that many people here vote that marriage is okay .

it depend of the experience and person whom anyone is getting marry i guess

personally i don think i will get marry
 

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Marriage is something to be taken very seriously and not jumped into with out careful introspection. I love my wife and an truly devoted, but it took years to get to this point. A lot of people don't get this far without divorcing.

My thought on it was I will walk that aisle once and never see a divorce court.
 

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I once allmost married a Mexican woman in Yuma. She would give me free Whiskey in a local bar. Thats a good enough reason no?
 

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I didn't need to announce to the rest of the world that I loved her. We told each other everyday.
 

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Hey bub, If you haven't taken the plung,Don't; unless you are for sure she or he is the right one for you. Too many mistakes are being made these days and there are a lot of unhappy people out there. When I say unhappy, that means me too. I thought I got the right one, but when I think back on it, I married for all the wrong reasons. It doesn't matter how young or old you are, you just need to make sure that you're sure, that you're sure, that you're sure. Take it from me, don't make the same mistake I've made.
 

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That's all well and good to think - does anyone really go into a marriage thinking it will end in divorce - wtf would the point in that be?

One day you'll choke on that logic. :wink:

I guess what I meant was there was a reason I did not marry until I was 38 years old. I had many women in my lifetime, but the one I have now I am sure will stay the course. We have already been to hell and back and we are still here.

And I am aware no one goes into it thinking "OK, we'll have a couple of kid's and say in 15 years we'll get a divorce. Ok?" :biggrin1: