Hey, um, what the heck do you women want?
OK, ok, ok... so I know that many of you here want a big cock. But besides that, what do you want?
I just got out of a relationship where she said she wanted to "find herself" (I truly believe that was her intention) but shortly after our breakup she already had a new boyfriend. So of course, this pisses me off, because nobody wants to be forgotten that quickly - especially when you were about to ask her to marry you.
Anyways, so I'm back on the market. I don't know a damn thing about dating (I'm 26 and only been in 2 relationships total... yeah believe it), or at least approaching a stranger in hopes of hooking up/dating/buying a drink/chatting/etc. I don't know if I should just go as myself (which is a shy quirky guy that tells jokes that only nerds get, lol) and be honest about who I am or if I should be a badass and just spit on them (girls seem to like the dudes that act like they could give a shit about them, and do shit on them).
Truthfully, I'm not into one night stands and am looking for a long term relationship... someone I can take home to mom, ya know?
What you like to see guys wear?
Any colognes that are hot these days? Turn off colognes? Or should I just go to the gym and sweat it up to get an au naturale smell?
Any bodily attributes that are generally turn ons for women? (lips, butt, arms, etc)?
Any specific demeanor ya'll like?
Play hard to get (like you dont need em)?
I was just kidding about the spitting thing. For that matter, I'm not sure I can make myself be someone I totally am not. I just need a coach on how I can at least get a girl to sit down with me and chat for a while. I don't think I am a bad looking guy, I just have somewhat low confidence (or the opposite, I'm too confident and I appear "pushy" I guess?) so I many times feel like what I say is not being received and I start getting tongue-tied and trip over my words (dammit I hate when I start tripping). I think most people who know me would say that I've got a pretty good sense of humor (even aside from the nerd jokes). I can run with the craziest of them all, but I also have a very deep side too (probably more deep than silly really). I'm not poor (educated) and most importantly...my momma says I have "so much to offer." LOL!
Any coaches out there? :tongue:
OK, ok, ok... so I know that many of you here want a big cock. But besides that, what do you want?
I just got out of a relationship where she said she wanted to "find herself" (I truly believe that was her intention) but shortly after our breakup she already had a new boyfriend. So of course, this pisses me off, because nobody wants to be forgotten that quickly - especially when you were about to ask her to marry you.
Anyways, so I'm back on the market. I don't know a damn thing about dating (I'm 26 and only been in 2 relationships total... yeah believe it), or at least approaching a stranger in hopes of hooking up/dating/buying a drink/chatting/etc. I don't know if I should just go as myself (which is a shy quirky guy that tells jokes that only nerds get, lol) and be honest about who I am or if I should be a badass and just spit on them (girls seem to like the dudes that act like they could give a shit about them, and do shit on them).
Truthfully, I'm not into one night stands and am looking for a long term relationship... someone I can take home to mom, ya know?
What you like to see guys wear?
Any colognes that are hot these days? Turn off colognes? Or should I just go to the gym and sweat it up to get an au naturale smell?
Any bodily attributes that are generally turn ons for women? (lips, butt, arms, etc)?
Any specific demeanor ya'll like?
Play hard to get (like you dont need em)?
I was just kidding about the spitting thing. For that matter, I'm not sure I can make myself be someone I totally am not. I just need a coach on how I can at least get a girl to sit down with me and chat for a while. I don't think I am a bad looking guy, I just have somewhat low confidence (or the opposite, I'm too confident and I appear "pushy" I guess?) so I many times feel like what I say is not being received and I start getting tongue-tied and trip over my words (dammit I hate when I start tripping). I think most people who know me would say that I've got a pretty good sense of humor (even aside from the nerd jokes). I can run with the craziest of them all, but I also have a very deep side too (probably more deep than silly really). I'm not poor (educated) and most importantly...my momma says I have "so much to offer." LOL!
Any coaches out there? :tongue: