What Do You Like About Giving Sph?

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I for one, i like to receive SPH at times when i am camming and when very close to shoot my load - but never in real life. there i am my wife's bull, her sex god (quoting her words hehe). but online it's often prooved to be fun for me and a kinky side to experience and explore.

Now when asked for giving SPH to other guys i almost never like to do it. I don't enjoy ridiculing another guy's cock at all.

so i am wondering what makes guys enjoy giving it and how do they always get new and creative ideas to ridicule and humilate another guy's dick?
 

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i think men who go out of their way to humiliate other men for having a small dick has either (or both) a superior or authoritative complex about themselves in regard to other men. it may have been also perpetuated by women doing it to shame men and thereby creating a pseudo-belief that a big dick equates to being more of a man. porn doesn't help either... the worse, though, is when they do it to hide the fact that they also have a small penis too. i believe psychology has proven that we will hate what we are.

on the flip side, if these smaller men are asking for it, then that's a whole different story. in this scenario, both partners are just deriving pleasure from a transaction, per se. sounds very clinical and cold but it's the reality of it. is it good or bad?... well, that's not for me to decide or judge. there are men who only like ridicule from women while there are men who only like it from other men.

personally, i could never do it; even if it was asked of me and invited. i just can't humiliate a guy for having a small dick. it's the same where i was never able to be a bull for a cuckold couple wherein part of the job of being a bull was to throw humiliating words at the guy during the act.
 

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Unfortunately, hung guys that seem to like giving sph is asking for a minority within a minority, so it’s hard to find for sure.
Guys like me, that have average-lower end of big sized dicks, but still enjoy sph have it hard because it’s hard for someone to make fun of your dick being small whenever you have a dick bigger than theirs... :p
 

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I can't even imagine doing that. What a shit way to be towards someone.
I agree, if it was real. that would be called bullying or whatever. But then again it's just a fetish for those who love it, remember? Like some are into domination, pantyhose, pain or whatever. live and let live, kim!
 

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I agree, if it was real. that would be called bullying or whatever. But then again it's just a fetish for those who love it, remember? Like some are into domination, pantyhose, pain or whatever. live and let live, kim!
You misunderstand. I think it's shit. The fact that I don't see the attraction doesn't mean I begrudge anyone who does. I'm allowed to express my opinion without it having any affect on anyone else.

And hopefully it's only a kink and not an actual fetish. Fetishes are often emotionally harmful to the person possessing them, because it's their only sexual release trigger.
 

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I'm gonna go out on a limb here. Probably get some shit, but. . .

Yes, there don't seem to be a lot of guys into that. At least, judging by what you see IRL and on sites like this. Where you do see it sometimes is when someone has specifically asked for it. And then, as some have lamented, it's not enough to meet the demand.

Although I think they'd still be in the minority, I think this implies it's social pressure which keeps the number down. That it's perceived to be okay under certain circumstances. I have noticed in posts where guys do recount putting a guy down for having a small dick -- or sleeping with his wife, etc. -- it's almost always prefaced by some all-purpose palliative that the guy was a "real jerk", "total asshole", or otherwise deserving of being cut down to size.

There are probably a fair number of well-hung dudes who might cross over from feeling good about having a big cock to having a little fun with guys who have smaller cocks but for the negative peer pressure they pick up from their buddies when younger. It's quickly learned that it's usually not the best way to win friends and influence people. . . except, of course, if the guy is asking for it. Then all's fair in love and war.

With that said, I have to admit I've received very little long this line, though hung like a chipmunk.