What do you love about gay guys....

jfrsndvs

Experimental Member
Joined
Jul 16, 2006
Posts
352
Media
2
Likes
16
Points
238
Location
Quincy (Illinois, United States)
Sexuality
69% Gay, 31% Straight
Gender
Male
oh gee, I ain't on that list :crying: oh well, good thing that my feelings aren't hurt any, LOL.

what I love about gay guys, well their bodies, some of them have one hell of a good mind to go with one hell of a good bod.




What I love about Gay Guys:
  • Matthew
  • DC DEEP (and Hubby)
  • RedBear
  • TexJoe
  • HungMuscle
  • HungHuge
  • GoneA
  • JeffBlack
  • Iathick
  • Spoogesicle
  • ColJohn
  • Fortiesfun
  • jonb
  • dreamer20
  • typhu31
  • drambone
  • CardDiffDillion
  • meatpackingbubba
  • MegaDick
  • DaveRock
  • Senior Ruby
and SO Much more....
 

agnslz

Loved Member
Joined
Jun 29, 2006
Posts
4,668
Media
0
Likes
520
Points
333
Got that right! ;)

Thank you!:biggrin1:
Can I just pinch you?

As long as it's not too hard a pinch!:tongue:


Okay, I thought I'd also give a more serious answer to this thread. I love the fact that so many gay guys (and lesbians) adopt children. And, many a time, they adopt the children that aren't the 'healthy white baby'! Meaning, kids that are usually left unadopted for long periods, due to emotional problems, mental health issues, etc., even color of skin, unfortunately!

There was a story in my local newspaper recently about a lesbian couple that adopted, and are raising, a formerly abused Black child. It was really inspiring and really showed me the generosity, affection, and willingness to help others, of so many members of the GLBT community! I think childless gay and lesbian couples are a Godsend to children in need of adopting, this is why I think so many opposed to gay people, fight so hard to prevent gay adoption.
 

madame_zora

Sexy Member
Joined
May 5, 2004
Posts
9,608
Media
0
Likes
51
Points
258
Location
Ohio
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Sometimes it's just so nice to have a man who can be your friend, without having to have that whole sexual dynamic between you. You never have to wonder if he really likes you or just wants to fuck you.

Gay men and women both know what it feels like to be put down socially, and we help prop each other up when we need it.

Gay people who want to raise families have to really want to raise families- it won't happen by accident. Agnslz brought up a beautiful point that they often adopt children that might not have found loving families otherwise.

Most of the gay guys I know have done better than I have at learning to achieve a balance between the things they take seriously and the things that are just fun. Sometimes I forget the fun part, and that's not a good thing to forget.

I appreciate every person in my life who takes the time to be my friend.
 

absinthium

Experimental Member
Joined
Mar 15, 2005
Posts
425
Media
6
Likes
7
Points
163
Location
Dickcuntsburg, USAtown
Sexuality
50% Straight, 50% Gay
Gender
Female
I love gay guys because their very existence serves to teach the rest of the uptight, small minded world a thing or two about acceptance and love.

Like any group of people that faces oppression, they teach us the meaning of dignity in the face of intolerance.

I love gay men because they have much more to offer the world than most of us realize, and are therefore a constantly pleasant surprise.

Mostly, though, I love the the gay men I've known because they know how it feels to be left out and made to feel different, and their hearts are too big to ever allow themselves to do it to someone else. They accept you in ways that no one else ever could. The gay men in my life that have been true friends manage to transcend the limits of mere friendship and have become my brothers. A person could never ask for a better soul to share their time with than a gay guy.

(Go hug one already. Befriend him on the spot if you have to.)
 

rawbone8

Cherished Member
Joined
Jun 30, 2004
Posts
2,827
Media
1
Likes
294
Points
303
Location
Ontario (Canada)
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I love gay guys because their very existence serves to teach the rest of the uptight, small minded world a thing or two about acceptance and love.

Like any group of people that faces oppression, they teach us the meaning of dignity in the face of intolerance.

I love gay men because they have much more to offer the world than most of us realize, and are therefore a constantly pleasant surprise.

Mostly, though, I love the the gay men I've known because they know how it feels to be left out and made to feel different, and their hearts are too big to ever allow themselves to do it to someone else. They accept you in ways that no one else ever could. The gay men in my life that have been true friends manage to transcend the limits of mere friendship and have become my brothers. A person could never ask for a better soul to share their time with than a gay guy.

(Go hug one already. Befriend him on the spot if you have to.)

I wish you would post more.
That was real.
 

Epistasia

Sexy Member
Joined
Jan 27, 2007
Posts
84
Media
0
Likes
32
Points
238
Location
Southern California
Sexuality
80% Straight, 20% Gay
Gender
Female
I love that in the face of adversity my gay friends still want to have fun.
I love that they can show me how lucky I am to be accepted for who I am with out coming off as bitter.
I love that I can be the hugest bitch in the world and they will just laugh and say "Honey, you are so precious!"
I live in a large gay community in southern California and I feel more at home than anywhere I've ever lived. I love that it's not really a "gay" community, we're all just close neighbors.
I love being thought of as a person, not just a pair of tits that won't shut up.
I love that they feel as lucky to have me as friends as I do them.

I know that most of these are generalizations but I can honestly say that they have held true for most of the gay men and women I've met where I live. What I love most is that we are all just people and no distinction needs to be made between gay and strait.

Brit
 

Principessa

Expert Member
Joined
Nov 22, 2006
Posts
18,660
Media
0
Likes
135
Points
193
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
I can't believe I am about to quote Ben Affleck!
"A friend will help you move, a good friend will help you move a body."

I would like to add to that, "Not only will they help you move a body, if in New Jersey they probably already have a tarp and a shovel in the back of their SUV or car; and won't ask questions until you are at the diner afterwards drinking coffee." :biggrin1: :tongue: :smile:

Hmmm, I smell a screen play...:smile:


I love gay guys because their very existence serves to teach the rest of the uptight, small minded world a thing or two about acceptance and love.

Like any group of people that faces oppression, they teach us the meaning of dignity in the face of intolerance.

I love gay men because they have much more to offer the world than most of us realize, and are therefore a constantly pleasant surprise.

Mostly, though, I love the the gay men I've known because they know how it feels to be left out and made to feel different, and their hearts are too big to ever allow themselves to do it to someone else. They accept you in ways that no one else ever could. The gay men in my life that have been true friends manage to transcend the limits of mere friendship and have become my brothers. A person could never ask for a better soul to share their time with than a gay guy.

(Go hug one already. Befriend him on the spot if you have to.)
 

Lordpendragon

Experimental Member
Joined
Jul 5, 2004
Posts
3,814
Media
0
Likes
18
Points
258
Sexuality
No Response
I love the humour. The unashamed ability to cut through the crap. Julian Clary and Frankie Howard to name but two and Daverock for three.

The "If you don't like it, Fuck you" attitude.

The impetus they give to sexual liberation. All orientations have benefited.

The political activism. Agan I think we all benefit.

Irreverence floats my boat.
 

Lex

Expert Member
Joined
Jun 11, 2004
Posts
8,253
Media
0
Likes
118
Points
268
Location
In Your Darkest Thoughts and Dreams
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
Sometimes it's just so nice to have a man who can be your friend, without having to have that whole sexual dynamic between you. You never have to wonder if he really likes you or just wants to fuck you.

Gay men and women both know what it feels like to be put down socially, and we help prop each other up when we need it.

Gay people who want to raise families have to really want to raise families- it won't happen by accident. Agnslz brought up a beautiful point that they often adopt children that might not have found loving families otherwise.

Most of the gay guys I know have done better than I have at learning to achieve a balance between the things they take seriously and the things that are just fun. Sometimes I forget the fun part, and that's not a good thing to forget.

I appreciate every person in my life who takes the time to be my friend.

I love gay guys because their very existence serves to teach the rest of the uptight, small minded world a thing or two about acceptance and love.

Like any group of people that faces oppression, they teach us the meaning of dignity in the face of intolerance.

I love gay men because they have much more to offer the world than most of us realize, and are therefore a constantly pleasant surprise.

Mostly, though, I love the the gay men I've known because they know how it feels to be left out and made to feel different, and their hearts are too big to ever allow themselves to do it to someone else. They accept you in ways that no one else ever could. The gay men in my life that have been true friends manage to transcend the limits of mere friendship and have become my brothers. A person could never ask for a better soul to share their time with than a gay guy.

(Go hug one already. Befriend him on the spot if you have to.)

You two are seriously amazing and I can't wait to meet you both one day.
 

Dorset

Experimental Member
Joined
Aug 24, 2005
Posts
391
Media
4
Likes
5
Points
163
Location
UK
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Gay men reduce the competition for all the lovely straight women out there :biggrin1:

On the negative side though they raise the bar for what women expect from men :wink:
 

D_Sheffield Thongbynder

Experimental Member
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Posts
2,020
Media
0
Likes
4
Points
183
Of the many things I love about the gay men I know here in real life, the most salient quality is their unadulterated openmindedness. I can talk about any sexual topic without embarrassment or fear of appearing less masculine. I have long maintained that gay men are among the most masculine. I considered Lex's including me on his list of gay men a compliment.
 

Dorset

Experimental Member
Joined
Aug 24, 2005
Posts
391
Media
4
Likes
5
Points
163
Location
UK
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
It's odd listening to some of these comments, from the gay friends, workmates and acquaintances I've had in the past I've found gay men to have the same strengths and weaknesses as straight men; they're just presented in a different package.
Maybe it's just that women find them easier to talk to and that's why they can see the good bits in them easier than in straight men. I know gay men who have absolutely no interest in fashion or shopping but would far rather have a beer and watch the football. I know some with real attitude problems and some sweet and lovely people.
I'm a straight guy but I have a very good eye for interior design, strangely enough though women never ask me about colour schemes but will ask the gay guy sat next to me. Maybe people just have a pre-set perception about gay men being nicer. It really isn't always true!!

To read some of the comments on here you would thing that the whole gay community should be knighted! Well why not just cut the crap and accept that gay men are just the same as straight men in that every person is an individual and you can't attach character traits onto someone purely based on who they like to shag!

Maybe I'm taking the thread a little too seriously but then maybe that's just because I'm a straight guy and as such I have to take things too far :wink:
 

B_Think_Kink

Sexy Member
Joined
Oct 25, 2006
Posts
10,419
Media
0
Likes
47
Points
193
Gender
Female
Sometimes it's just so nice to have a man who can be your friend, without having to have that whole sexual dynamic between you. You never have to wonder if he really likes you or just wants to fuck you.

Gay men and women both know what it feels like to be put down socially, and we help prop each other up when we need it.

Gay people who want to raise families have to really want to raise families- it won't happen by accident. Agnslz brought up a beautiful point that they often adopt children that might not have found loving families otherwise.

Most of the gay guys I know have done better than I have at learning to achieve a balance between the things they take seriously and the things that are just fun. Sometimes I forget the fun part, and that's not a good thing to forget.

I appreciate every person in my life who takes the time to be my friend.
Amazing. What a great way to put it.
I love gay guys because their very existence serves to teach the rest of the uptight, small minded world a thing or two about acceptance and love.

Like any group of people that faces oppression, they teach us the meaning of dignity in the face of intolerance.

I love gay men because they have much more to offer the world than most of us realize, and are therefore a constantly pleasant surprise.

Mostly, though, I love the the gay men I've known because they know how it feels to be left out and made to feel different, and their hearts are too big to ever allow themselves to do it to someone else. They accept you in ways that no one else ever could. The gay men in my life that have been true friends manage to transcend the limits of mere friendship and have become my brothers. A person could never ask for a better soul to share their time with than a gay guy.

(Go hug one already. Befriend him on the spot if you have to.)
I really want to meet you.. you speak so well... thank you for your post.
 

agnslz

Loved Member
Joined
Jun 29, 2006
Posts
4,668
Media
0
Likes
520
Points
333
It's odd listening to some of these comments, from the gay friends, workmates and acquaintances I've had in the past I've found gay men to have the same strengths and weaknesses as straight men; they're just presented in a different package.
Maybe it's just that women find them easier to talk to and that's why they can see the good bits in them easier than in straight men. I know gay men who have absolutely no interest in fashion or shopping but would far rather have a beer and watch the football. I know some with real attitude problems and some sweet and lovely people.
I'm a straight guy but I have a very good eye for interior design, strangely enough though women never ask me about colour schemes but will ask the gay guy sat next to me. Maybe people just have a pre-set perception about gay men being nicer. It really isn't always true!!

To read some of the comments on here you would thing that the whole gay community should be knighted! Well why not just cut the crap and accept that gay men are just the same as straight men in that every person is an individual and you can't attach character traits onto someone purely based on who they like to shag!

Maybe I'm taking the thread a little too seriously but then maybe that's just because I'm a straight guy and as such I have to take things too far :wink:
Have you read the "What pisses you off about gay guys" thread?:biggrin:
 

madame_zora

Sexy Member
Joined
May 5, 2004
Posts
9,608
Media
0
Likes
51
Points
258
Location
Ohio
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Think_Kink, absinthium is my daughter, and an occasional poster here. I'll tell her you said hi because she doesn't check in here often.

Dorset, of course you are right about gay men being essentially like straight men. The difference for women is that gay men don't try to control us and straight men so often do. It probably doesn't seem fair to the few straight guys out there who don't do this, but you can't blame women for forming opinions based on tons of personal experience.

I really don't hate men- not all of them, but I DO hate the ones who have been the majority in my life who are egocentric self-centered controlling assholes. I would give anything to meet a better lot.