I understand his frustration. Though I don't really think about playing with nipples with my fingers, using my tongue is very appeal, and hard nipples can make it that much more fun. And I might think the same thing about the turning on thing, but if you explained it I wouldn't be frustrated at all.
I don't mind reduction at all, and scars are no big deal. Motorboating and burying my face in breasts isn't all that appealing to me (Though I wouldn't refuse if asked. :tongue

, the cumming in is fantastic. :wink: