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As a gay man, is there anything that you find gross in gay porn or gay sex? Remember that everyone is different, so be respectful. No shaming or insulting.

I’ll go first. I hate cum. The thought of it in my mouth grosses me out to the point that I start gagging. Not really a fan of getting it on me at all— not even my own.

Building on that, things like cum swapping and felching make me feel ill. I can’t even look at those things.

I also don’t get sounding, stretching, etc. I call it dick torture. Is it really pleasurable? It looks painful.

So what about y’all? Is there anything you don’t like?
 

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I hate gay porn that doesn't have a "story" to it. If it just jumps right into guys having sex without a reason/plot/story, I will turn it off.
Speaking of porn, I hate when the top pulls out and jacks his cock for 20-30 seconds in order to creampie.

There should be a 5 second rule, if it ain't ready by then, it goes back in the oven!
 

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Butt to mouth dick sucking. It just grosses me out. Ironically I love to eat ass, but the thought of sucking a dick that was just in my ass just turns me off.

Anything pain related is just an absolute turn off, ie fisting, sounding, stretching etc. sex is supposed to be fun and intimate and make you feel good, so I just don’t get that.

I don’t like cum either. The minute we are both done I have to immediately grab a towel to clean myself up. My bf gets annoyed but sorry, I hate the thought of dried cum getting all crusty and gross.

I also don’t get the whole “be as dirty and sweaty and smelly and musty as you can be” thing. A gym locker room has one of the most repulsive offensive odours known to man. Why would that be a turn on?

I swear I am gay and like men lol. I didn’t think I was too high maintenance, but I guess I have my preferences lol.
 

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Speaking of porn, I hate when the top pulls out and jacks his cock for 20-30 seconds in order to creampie.

There should be a 5 second rule, if it ain't ready by then, it goes back in the oven!
YES! I'm not watching porn so I can watch some guy jack off.
 

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I like to see the undressing and the foreplay that goes along with it; tongues thrust into the other's mouth and the gradual unveiling of the partner's entire body. I also don't like to see sex scenes with the participants wearing jocks while fucking. I just want to see them completely naked.
 

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When a guy jerks off and just lets his cum fall on the floor, whether there's another dude there or not, infuriates me all to hell! Or you know he's desparate for a towel or some such.

What a waste!! Lick that up!!
It's your own cum, it's safe!

OK, that may be more of a personal kink than an actual issue... but still. Grrr!
 

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what gets me is you see these guys so freaking sexy alone having to jerk off--and they are so sexy and have such nice dicks theres no reason they need to jerk off--some people say they cant stand taste of cum or even the smell--ever since the first time i swallowed a load i been hooked and it didnt really taste bad at all
 

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Speaking of porn, I hate when the top pulls out and jacks his cock for 20-30 seconds in order to creampie.

There should be a 5 second rule, if it ain't ready by then, it goes back in the oven!
So true, I don't like spitting on a woman's face.
 

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I’m still not use to anal or anal play. Anal still feels unsettling for me, I don’t know what it is. I don’t have that rush of pleasure that you always hear about. Also cumming in my mouth is anything but sexy for me.
 
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Spitting for me. Smells funny when it drys on my skin. I dont know if that's a gay thing per se, but that's the sex I have, so....
I don't like it either....I hate it when someone, Female or male, spits on a guy cock. It disgusts me.
 
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I'm pretty vanilla when it comes to sex. I've never had the urge or desire to try anything other than just normal sex, but I wouldn't be against exploring things with the right person

The more tame things don't really bother me, but when things start to get really kinky that's then I start to cringe. Stuff like BDSM, CBT, Fletching, Fisting, and other out there fetishes (and even some that are pretty common) make me feel uncomfortable
 
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As a gay man, is there anything that you find gross in gay porn or gay sex? Remember that everyone is different, so be respectful. No shaming or insulting.

I’ll go first. I hate cum. The thought of it in my mouth grosses me out to the point that I start gagging. Not really a fan of getting it on me at all— not even my own.

Building on that, things like cum swapping and felching make me feel ill. I can’t even look at those things.

I also don’t get sounding, stretching, etc. I call it dick torture. Is it really pleasurable? It looks painful.

So what about y’all? Is there anything you don’t like?
So I don’t know what the actual terminology is and it’s not happened in person to me just seen in porn. But I Don’t like seeing a bottom’s rectum pushed out of their ass. In my mind it doesn’t seem safe or healthy but it’s a trend in videos nowadays it seems.

also I don’t like guys to cum on my face, never been a turn on for me
 

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So I don’t know what the actual terminology is and it’s not happened in person to me just seen in porn. But I Don’t like seeing a bottom’s rectum pushed out of their ass. In my mind it doesn’t seem safe or healthy but it’s a trend in videos nowadays it seems.

also I don’t like guys to cum on my face, never been a turn on for me
Like a prolapse? There’s porn for that? That’s gross!
 
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Like a prolapse? There’s porn for that? That’s gross!
It’s not to the extent of prolapse but to the point of when you can easily see rectum walls when he spreads his cheeks, I don’t like that. And a lot of these guys lately post videos on twitter and stuff showing that.