I'm at a loss of words to say to my sister. I feel badly about her getting a divorce but honestly I could see it a mile away even though they have been married for over 20 years. He regularly cheated on her and I think she just fooled herself into not seeing it because it hurt too much. They have grown kids all over 19 so I don't think the divorce will be a traumatic experience for them. I guess life just moves on.