In many ways it suits me extremely well. In other ways it fucking ruins my life. I'm sure that the majority of women and men would also find this to be the case to varying degrees if they examine it all.
In many ways it suits me extremely well. In other ways it fucking ruins my life. I'm sure that the majority of women and men would also find this to be the case to varying degrees if they examine it all.
I define myself. Parts that fit, fine; the parts that don’t, I toss away.
Likewise. I’m all for paving my own path, but also being thankful to the feminists who have helped to clear the path.I define myself. Parts that fit, fine; the parts that don’t, I toss away.
I think the less defined gender roles become, the happier we’ll all be. One of things I’ve learned from this site, is how quite a few men respond to other men - this innate desire to be intimate in ways that society doesn’t approve of. (I’m referring to the large number of guys on here who enjoy looking at and talking about other men’s bodies in highly sexualised ways - desire to explore oral sex as they age came as a surprise to me**,)Do you prefer a society with strong gender roles or one with loose ones then?
I think the less defined gender roles become, the happier we’ll all be. One of things I’ve learned from this site, is how quite a few men respond to other men - this innate desire to be intimate in ways that society doesn’t approve of. (I’m referring to the large number of guys on here who enjoy looking at and talking about other men’s bodies in highly sexualised ways - desire to explore oral sex as they age came as a surprise to me**,)
Whilst I don’t believe we can change our DNA - born male, become female etc. I look forward to a time when gender is no longer an issue and people can dress/make modifications to their bodies and identity as however they wish. It really shouldn’t matter. Enforcing gender roles over the centuries has done nothing but cause misery. It’s time to broaden our understanding of the human experience.
**its possible I’m conflating gender with sex here - if so, feel free to correct me (politely, yo), as I would like to better understand.