What do you think about when you masturbate?

[nolbaby]

don't worry, most people are slightly illiterate on this site. :biggrin1: (kidding, kidding.)

its spelled "sight". idiot.

all i have to add to this thread is that i was arguing with an ex girlfriend one time about what the definition of CHEATING is, and it came up.
see, i believe that, in a way, you are cheating on your sig other as soon as you even THINK about having sex with somebody else. the way i see it, if you are thinking about it and wanting it, then you might as well be doing it.
she obviously disagreed, as 99% of the world does with this belief of mine. But she's all "i would never cheat, and i'd leave u if u cheated. you're supposed to only be intimate with the person you're with". so i was like "ok... so do you only think about ME when you masturbate? every time? only me"?

we ended up breaking up because of a million other reasons, but the point of the story is that I WON THAT FUCKING FIGHT IF YOU'RE READING THIS AYLA. I WON!

 

[koval]

its spelled "sight". idiot.

Actually, site is the correct word (as in website)

sight is as in eyesight.:biggrin1:

 

[voidout]

its spelled "sight". idiot.

i love these type of responses. i didn't even have to say anything to make you look like a fucking tool.

 

[civilsavage]

since i consider myself an expert (40+ years and counting) on masturbation i'll make this my first post.

currently and for about the last eight years i masturbate about my wife. i know boring. but it’s my greatest turn on 9 and of 10 times. sometimes i envision her getting fucked by me sometimes others. sometimes i concentrate on her just being unable to resist temptation and letting her lust go wild. i think about her stomach quivering, her juices visible flowing and her eyes rolling back as she spasms into a near convulsion. I masterbate to the thought of her being alone and masturbating and i'm about ready to go masturbate thinking about her reading this post and masturbating. who knows maybe i'll even show it to her.

 

[Opalite]

There are a few past sexual experiences I reminisce about at times, but more often I will just fantasize. I like to sketch elaborate scenario's - not always involving actual sex - most often about someone I know or have met. Most of my fantasies tend to be about being dominated.. I wouldn't really call it rape (just because I am choosing to fantasize about it, involving the men I choosing to fantasize about - there 's no real force), but definately the idea of having to give in to the situation and being the object of lust is a turn on. The safety of a fantasy makes it easier to explore extremes, so I often do.

I don't know if it's a 'girls thing', but I can spend ages fantasizing and exploring the posibilities of a scenario before actually masturbating.. The longer I have myself build up the tension, the better my orgasms will get.

 

[voidout]

There are a few past sexual experiences I reminisce about at times, but more often I will just fantasize. I like to sketch elaborate scenario's - not always involving actual sex - most often about someone I know or have met. Most of my fantasies tend to be about being dominated.. I wouldn't really call it rape (just because I am choosing to fantasize about it, involving the men I choosing to fantasize about - there 's no real force), but definately the idea of having to give in to the situation and being the object of lust is a turn on. The safety of a fantasy makes it easier to explore extremes, so I often do.

I don't know if it's a 'girls thing', but I can spend ages fantasizing and exploring the posibilities of a scenario before actually masturbating.. The longer I have myself build up the tension, the better my orgasms will get.

+1.

 

[nolbaby]

Actually, site is the correct word (as in website)

sight is as in eyesight.:biggrin1:

Yeah. I know... Apparently sarcasm recognition isn't your strong suit.

 

[nolbaby]

i love these type of responses. i didn't even have to say anything to make you look like a fucking tool.

Nor is it yours, apparently.

 

[Mr_Cumalot]

Girls do your fantasies change when you are in a full on relationship or do you still masturbate to thoughts of other people or past conquests? I ask because i want to know what my girl thinks of. She like me says she thinks of me, but i want the two of us to open up to each other but dont know how to go about it. Is it possible to open up like this but stay faithful? I mean i want to know her fantasies but i dont want this to lead to an open relationship AT ALL.

 

[Enid]

I'm seeing someone. When I masturbate and I am not thinking of him, then I imagine pornographic scenarios. Sometimes involving things that I am not that interested in doing IRL (for instance, DP involving a 3rd person; I prefer one-on-one sex in reality) and sometimes just my regular thoughts of wild Draconian cavewoman-on-crack sex. At times I'm not even placing myself in the fantasy -- I imagine a scene and play it back in my head.

 

[Daisy]

Girls do your fantasies change when you are in a full on relationship or do you still masturbate to thoughts of other people or past conquests? I ask because i want to know what my girl thinks of. She like me says she thinks of me, but i want the two of us to open up to each other but dont know how to go about it. Is it possible to open up like this but stay faithful? I mean i want to know her fantasies but i dont want this to lead to an open relationship AT ALL.

As it is right now, I don't think about anybody but "him". I know he watches porn and probably thinks about other things, but I'm secure enough to know that when we're together it's all me. But as far as what I think about when I'm not with him...I'm thinking about him. This is kind of unusual for me since I have a wandering eye and I do occasionally watch porn but for the most part..I just think about him.

 

[MagicJohnsonFan]

I don't know if it's a 'girls thing', but I can spend ages fantasizing and exploring the posibilities of a scenario before actually masturbating.. The longer I have myself build up the tension, the better my orgasms will get.

I'm the same way - and not just by myself. What I think about during masturbation just depends on my mood. Some of my favorites:

1. Past sexual experiences with my fiance (sometimes with, sometimes without my gal-pal)
2. Scenes involving submission
3. Anal sex
4. Fisting
5. Double penetration

The thing that has gotten me off the most lately is the thought of spending several hours just completely immersed in things that are sensual and sexual. Candles, a glass of wine, maybe watching some porn together or just talking about sexual fantasies or experiencs...touching, stroking and kissing each other but avoiding the "primary" sexual spots for a while (goes back to the build up). Completely focusing on each other.

 

[Fleur]

There are a few past sexual experiences I reminisce about at times, but more often I will just fantasize. I like to sketch elaborate scenario's - not always involving actual sex - most often about someone I know or have met. Most of my fantasies tend to be about being dominated.. I wouldn't really call it rape (just because I am choosing to fantasize about it, involving the men I choosing to fantasize about - there 's no real force), but definately the idea of having to give in to the situation and being the object of lust is a turn on. The safety of a fantasy makes it easier to explore extremes, so I often do.

I don't know if it's a 'girls thing', but I can spend ages fantasizing and exploring the posibilities of a scenario before actually masturbating.. The longer I have myself build up the tension, the better my orgasms will get.

I'm the same...I spend ages fantasizing as well before I actually masturbate (and also before sex when I'm actually getting laid) which always makes it better. I'll also reminisce about great past sexual experiences (haven't had many of those)....but usually it's me fantasizing about different things and it's almost always with the person I'm in love with...

 

[SmallPenisMan]

I think about how great america was years ago before this country was overrun. I also think about trees, trees always give me a boner.

 

[D_Pinkie_Pusstache]

Brutal sex with lots of cum.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

when i masturbate i live out my fantasies. i think about various scenarios, current and past experiences, and all the things i've done that i've enjoyed. i focus on those moments and live them out in my mind.

for instance, when i'm receiving oral and i'm being licked over and over and over. or being bent a certain way and taking thrust after thrust. or taking things nice and slow to the point where i'm dying to cum but i want to keep going.

i also fantasize about things i have yet to do but would love to try. like, being taken by two or three or more men at once. or having this or that done to me while i just lay there and take it. i also have lots of fantasies about being submissive and being taken advantage of (not necessarily the "rape" fantasy). but i also have fantasies about being dominant and ordering my play-toy satisfy my every need.

my ultimate fantasy that gets me cumming everytime is when i imagine being man-handled and roughed up, then getting completely taken advantage of... messy hair, raging boner, breaking furniture, being pushed up against the wall, dirty talking, tearing the whole room apart, etc. i call that my "back-breaking sex" fantasy :redface:

 

[D_Jurgen Klitgaard]

when i masturbate i live out my fantasies. i think about various scenarios, current and past experiences, and all the things i've done that i've enjoyed. i focus on those moments and live them out in my mind.

for instance, when i'm receiving oral and i'm being licked over and over and over. or being bent a certain way and taking thrust after thrust. or taking things nice and slow to the point where i'm dying to cum but i want to keep going.

i also fantasize about things i have yet to do but would love to try. like, being taken by two or three or more men at once. or having this or that done to me while i just lay there and take it. i also have lots of fantasies about being submissive and being taken advantage of (not necessarily the "rape" fantasy). but i also have fantasies about being dominant and ordering my play-toy satisfy my every need.

my ultimate fantasy that gets me cumming everytime is when i imagine being man-handled and roughed up, then getting completely taken advantage of... messy hair, raging boner, breaking furniture, being pushed up against the wall, dirty talking, tearing the whole room apart, etc. i call that my "back-breaking sex" fantasy :redface:

Oh man, I'm taking notes on this one. You're in for a world of pleasure when I get a hold of you in a few weeks! :wink:

 

[pussnboots]

Okay, I agree with your thoughts on masturbating to fantasies you'd really not be turned on to with a partner. I have some that are no way would I do that fantasies and some that I can see doing, and others, I've done and still think are hot.

I have a few. Let's see....

1) I like the idea of two guys, it turns me on to think of two hot bi-guys and I just having a wild sex in all the possible positions

2) Tied up sex -- not exactly rough, but with the excitement/fear of being fucked any way the guy wants -- never, never would I allow this in real life -- so the fantasy had me freaked for a while! But I've read a lot about it, and lots of women get off on the adrenaline of this kind of sexual fantasy...

3) sex in public where someone can/could hear us...like a front porch or parking lot full of busy cars...

4) sometimes guys having sex, one guy getting 'punished' and loving it, while the other is ordering me around, usually to reward the other guy...kinda dom/sub but with a bit of fun involved....lol

5) and what I call the 'normal' ones, a hot guy I met, imagining him going down on me (the right way -- meaning I orgasm) and then hot, hard, very hard sex for a few ...ummmm days?

So, I totally get the fantasy of a 'meeting' kind of sex, just meeting a guy, having wild sex in an elevator or something instead of just fantasizing about a guys package or his chest....but friend of mine says he can just think about breasts and that's it for him. Wish it was that easy!

 

[pussnboots]

I also think about trees, trees always give me a boner.[/QUOTE]


really?

:wink:

 

[deleted509196]

Mostly - giving my man a BJ.