I met a guy about 3 weeks ago in the pool at my gym, and he started up a conversation. Decent conversation about himself asking about me... ice breaker sorta thing... He then waits for me after I had my shower that's at 11.30 pm or so and invites me to have a chat.. I decline as it was getting late plus I thought it a little weird for me to just start talking to him. This happens again a few days after, we just talk in the pool and then he waits again and this time well i kinda give in and we have a chat( against all my instincts... i mean its a little odd meeting a guy in a swimming pool!!) but I didn't wanna seem stuck up.. I found that he's really funny and nice to talk to. It doesn't seem like flirting.. just a friendly chat in the pool and later outside. Yesterday we do about the same thing but he mentions he hasn't eaten dinner and I suggested we catch a bite before heading home. We had some transport issues ( 2 cars) and as it was very late decided to call it for another time. When I suggested calling it ( as in perhaps another day) initially he was reluctant but eventually decided the time wasn't good... I don't really know what to think...He is a foreigner here, has been here for 2 years and lives pretty much alone but has a lot of friends and I would think that many women would consider him good looking as he has a fit body and a very pleasant face and is charming to talk to so I wouldn't think he would have any problems getting someone to have sex........Ive got some scenario's as his intentions towards me but I don't know if I'm missing something... 1) He just wants to have a fuck and because he saw me in the swimming pool in a bikini thought i was a good candidate ( easy maybe).. and hes a very smart predator so he's taking it easy-kinda like roping me in and not blurting out what he really wants 2) He just wants to be friends cos he's lonely away from home and would like someone to talk to that is of the same race 3) He actually likes me and is thinking of forming a relationship I really don't know what to think.. I would like to continue but feel as if I'm missing a danger signal.. I really wouldn't mind it if it was number 2 or 3.. does it sound like number 1 though?? what do I do or questions do I ask to find out what it is,also if you think its number 3 what can I do to get him to kiss me?