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Thanks for all your advice, Its been informative.I am prone to over analyse a lot of things, its a job related affliction.... Please don't think I meant that he has evil intentions or that most guys have ulterior motives, he probably doesn't and I think most guys don't. It's just I'm a pretty direct person, not blunt but I don't beat around the bush and I never understand people who go in circles.This post was a spur of the moment thing as I was a little confused by his actions and I thought I'd like more opinions on it and what it meant and I don't really want to talk to anyone I know about it cos they would probably warn me to stay away from him. Its obvious that most of you have had more experience in relationships than I have and have learnt to go with the flow.Yes this does sound like most male female initial meetings, I guess this is the first time in a meeting such as this that I've considered doing something stupid or spontaneous because I find him very attractive and perhaps it blinded me a little and narrowed my vision to only what I could think the outcomes could be.I hate prejudging people but I usually like to know approximately where I stand.
submissivegirl,Wellhung9, thanks for your views and advise on it , also for not judging me =), though I hate the thought of him being so cheap as to skip dating it is possible i suppose . If that's what he wants then he's going to find out its never going to happen. Now I remember he did mention that he had an apartment close to the gym and if I wanted to have a look he could show me...That's a little obvious isn't it... I thought it was all innocent and never gave it a second thought. Thanks for giving me a heads up on what it could mean. I'm hoping to find out he has a little more to him then that though.
closetbi,captainwhackit- you're right,I forgot for a moment that a relationship is a two way street.That it doesn't need to be what I don't want it to be. That's actually relieved my mind some and taken quite a bit of the pressure to know what he wants from me.Guess all i've got to say is "No".
Thadjock, Brensta- Yall think I should take him on face value then...although I feel that guys do speak their mind mostly, but generally I always feel their actions speak louder then words.Also some guys always say what they think the other wants to hear just to get what they want. All this has been debated on before at this site in other threads.. yes women more then men do see more meaning in actions and words and sometimes ( not all) it is spot on.I am over analysing I admit, but all I wanted were some thoughts on what his actions meant, I probably should have put this post in womens issues.Also I don't wanna be the one to arrange dinner.
The Rob- I will only if you will take the pictures =P
I'm not gonna reply anymore to this thread, It should die a natural death imo as I feel a little silly now in posting it.. still, thank you for all the feed back.
submissivegirl,Wellhung9, thanks for your views and advise on it , also for not judging me =), though I hate the thought of him being so cheap as to skip dating it is possible i suppose . If that's what he wants then he's going to find out its never going to happen. Now I remember he did mention that he had an apartment close to the gym and if I wanted to have a look he could show me...That's a little obvious isn't it... I thought it was all innocent and never gave it a second thought. Thanks for giving me a heads up on what it could mean. I'm hoping to find out he has a little more to him then that though.
closetbi,captainwhackit- you're right,I forgot for a moment that a relationship is a two way street.That it doesn't need to be what I don't want it to be. That's actually relieved my mind some and taken quite a bit of the pressure to know what he wants from me.Guess all i've got to say is "No".
Thadjock, Brensta- Yall think I should take him on face value then...although I feel that guys do speak their mind mostly, but generally I always feel their actions speak louder then words.Also some guys always say what they think the other wants to hear just to get what they want. All this has been debated on before at this site in other threads.. yes women more then men do see more meaning in actions and words and sometimes ( not all) it is spot on.I am over analysing I admit, but all I wanted were some thoughts on what his actions meant, I probably should have put this post in womens issues.Also I don't wanna be the one to arrange dinner.
The Rob- I will only if you will take the pictures =P
I'm not gonna reply anymore to this thread, It should die a natural death imo as I feel a little silly now in posting it.. still, thank you for all the feed back.
