What do you think of a guy over 18 who likes to j/o with buds?

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  1. JBisme

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    A small argument/discussion occured over the past week about whether a person is totally straight is he likes to jerk off with buds. There are many of us that enjoy it that accept we are not 100% straight and ok with it.:biggrin1:
     
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    It doesn't matter what anyone else would think of that. People have different views - some will see it only as a release of sexual tension, male bonding or whatever, others will say it's outright gay. In the end what matters is how you feel about it, whether emotionally it means more to you than just jacking off.

    Personally, I definitely wouldn't classify it as being gay. I'd say it's a part of growing up and learning more about yourself, though I've never had the chance to experience this first hand, and neither do I think I could - I'd chicken out. :p Even if the case is, like you've said, guys being 18+. Boys will be boys.
     
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    perfectly normal 4 guys 2 jerk off together if they want to. jerking off is neither str8 or gay, and doing it alone, with females, with males, or with both sexes is just individual choice. If it turns u on to do it with other guys, it cd be pure horniness or it cd be gay feelings. Some guys just like to show off jerking & cumming for an audience.

    Just jerk & squirt as u like, and don't worry about why or with who...
     
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    If one of my friends told me something like that they'd be seriously suspect
     
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    Jerking off with buddies can turn into Froth (two dicks rubbing against each other) which is so gay. Well, 100% straight men are very rare in this world.
     
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    If you enjoy it and you're not hurting anyone, who gives a shit what other people think?

    Have fun, man.
     
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    kinda gay, but thats ok.
     
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    While I think it's perfectly normal for guys to JO with each other, in fact I think it's quite hot. However, if guys want to jerk off with each other, they cannot be 100% straight in my opinion.
     
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    There's a big gap between wanting to stroke with a dude and getting married to one. Besides, who gives a sh*t what anyone else thinks?
     
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    i think, for me, it's lovely. what do YOU, JBisme, think about it for you?
     
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    Seriously suspect of what, exactly?
     
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    Nothing wrong with it. Get off as you please. I do it and enjoy it. Just like skype or on LPSG.
     
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    I have to echo those who say why should it matter. We're supposed to think it doesn't make a difference what you do as long as you're comfortable with yourself, yet a lot of people are paranoid about what "counts" as gay.
     
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    Funny my g/f thinks it is fine for me to hand mix a load of baby batter with a bud. Seems that many are Hung up on the idea of it. I bet more guys enjjerking with buds than would admit it.
     
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    My g/f thinks it is fine for me to j/o with buds, she knows I have with her brother. Seems that some think it is wrong. How many guys do you know that think it is cool to do it, want to enjoy jerking with a bud.
     
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    Hey, if she's cool with it...that's even better. Do what feels good dude. There will always be ppl out there with their own opinion of what is right and wrong. I can tell you that the gym I go to in NYC id full of "str8" guys who like to play around in the sauna/steam room. So, it's more common than anyone would like to admit.


     
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    Her attitude reminds me of the girlfriend of my boyfriend many years ago. She liked the idea of him having guy fun but was adamant about him with other girls. She said she couldn't compete with a mans plumbing but said it would be over between the two of them if he were to screw with a girl.
     
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    Having ulterior motives
     
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    Froth is what forms the head on your beer, or what's at your mouth during a seizure.

    Two dicks rubbing against each other is generally considered to be a form of frottage. Although "true" frottage is actually rubbing your dick (through clothing) against another person's body in a public setting (such as in a tightly packed line or a crowded elevator) for your own sexual gratification.

    I believe that to be true ... oh so very, very, very true!
     
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    My wife knows I've jerked with friends/roommates before we got together, and she didn't seem to care at all when I told her. If only I could get her permission to jerk with friends now!
     
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