I cannot figure it out. When it comes to sexual topics, he is extremley touchy about them. He seems to want to get off the subject and gets annoyed by it. And I mean mainly "gay" themes. Now, I dont want to push him on it too much because when I tell you about him abit you will see why. For as long as I've known him (few years now) he does not talk about personal things very much at all. He doesn't seem comfortable doing that either. I'll start to ask him something about why he doesn't like certain things, what he likes, and he is very private that way. For a long time I thought it was because he just didn't like me as a friend, but I've found thats not it. Since, we have those conversations and then the next day he calls me to do something. But, whenever we do something, we just do that, and thats it. We talk about general things but we can never get too personal. He doesn't like doing too social things either...I've asked him to go clubbing, other things, and he puts those down..for example I said lets go to a restaurant and he made it into another "gay" thing. He'll always want to call me though to go play sports, or just hang out. I really dont like that. I dont like the fact that many subjects are "meh" to him and I dont like that he seems uncomfortable with so much. He is not just this way to me, to other friends, he is exactly the same way. I have no idea why. Is this a personality thing (I've always wondered) or do you think he has some issues? I enjoy doing things, but for me anyways, I like to get abit closer to people. To him, it seems enough to just do things but thats all. I think a friendship is abit more, but maybe he doesn't think so. what do you guys think?