What do you want in a bottom?

[FuzzyKen]

I am going back a few years:

Also remember that I came from a little "rougher" community in sex than some, so a few things may be slightly different than average.

Male Sex

Physically:

1. Clean, free of warts, thrombosed veins, and a need for bulk buys of Preparation H.

2. No major back problems or injuries

3. Not so stretched out from fisting or other activities that they can no longer enjoy anything else. (No fun when one encounters an attractive individual who after years of activity is in possession of an anal canal that has only one difference between it and the Holland Tunnel which is the presence of fluorescent lighting.)

4. Physically able to do most things that a top would want to do.

5. Common sense cleanliness after activities are completed.

Mentally:

1. Receptive to new ideas or concepts and will try new things.

2. Not in internal conflict with the role of a true bottom

3. If they are inexperienced in this role, and want to experiment, they let the top know that this is a first or that they are inexperienced and that this is exploration for them.

4. Mentally able to turn on to the role they have chosen, or chosen to try, and can actually ejaculate from the activities in which a bottom would be assumed to participate.

 

[B_ILIW]

a good bottom in my mind is co-operative but not submissive. Though this depends on his reason for being a bottom, or his own unique sexual response. co-operative in the sense that he says what feels good and what does not. being non-submissive by not just lying there, or feeling too timid to speak up when needs be.

the main thing in my mind is responsiveness. a good bottom should not feel afraid to vocalise his pleasure to the top of his lungs lol. when the cock hits the prostate, spueals, moans, pants, and even shouting should be mandatory.

 

[SilverTrain]

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[nudeyorker]

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You may have missed the point slightly. But on topic SilverTrain I'm looking for someone like you to be as happy and enthused as this bottom. Pay special attention to when I starts saying "I like the feel of your big dick inside me"... and "Fuck me harder!"
Brock and cayden - XVIDEOS.COM

 

[B_subgirrl]

Communication is key, much like chemistry. If the bottom is uncomfortable or wants to switch positions, then tell me and we'll do it. But some positions just work better for me than others; like you, I prefer face-to-face.

It's a question of context how the interplay gets negotiated. Sometimes I'm a totally take-charge Dom top, other times I'm more inclined toward something more democratic and collaborative, but I have no desire to be dominated, myself. Part of consenting to have sex with me provides that I'm the driver, the bottom's the passenger. He can suggest turns and directions, but ultimately I see it as my job to get us where we both want to go.

Nailed it! That's exactly what I would have said. :wink:

Why are you two so gay? Based on what you've said in this thread, I really want to fuck the pair of you.

 

[bifnt4all]

Why are you two so gay? Based on what you've said in this thread, I really want to fuck the pair of you.

Hey subgirl, maybe we can have a 4 some with them.

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

You may have missed the point slightly. But on topic SilverTrain I'm looking for someone like you to be as happy and enthused as this bottom. Pay special attention to when I starts saying "I like the feel of your big dick inside me"... and "Fuck me harder!"
Brock and cayden - XVIDEOS.COM

Jeeeeeeeezus GAWD, that's some hot sh*t. That's what makes a memorable partner for me ... when that person almost can't help but talk about how it feels to have me inside.

 

[SilverTrain]

You may have missed the point slightly. But on topic SilverTrain I'm looking for someone like you to be as happy and enthused as this bottom. Pay special attention to when I starts saying "I like the feel of your big dick inside me"... and "Fuck me harder!"
Brock and cayden - XVIDEOS.COM

Lol.

I'll have to check it out when I'm not at work. :biggrin1:

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Why are you two so gay? Based on what you've said in this thread, I really want to fuck the pair of you.

Hey catch me on a 1% day and who knows what could happen :tongue:

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Jeeeeeeeezus GAWD, that's some hot sh*t. That's what makes a memorable partner for me ... when that person almost can't help but talk about how it feels to have me inside.

That's actually really really important too, I love a bottom to tell me how it feels to be fucked by me, in detail preferably.

The bottom in Nudey's link is crazy hot! It's a shame the top is a bit limp and doesn't do him justice.

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

That's actually really really important too, I love a bottom to tell me how it feels to be fucked by me, in detail preferably.

The bottom in Nudey's link is crazy hot! It's a shame the top is a bit limp and doesn't do him justice.

Good point about the guys in that vid. One reason I hate most commercial porn is that I like it when people having sex are really, really into each others.

The bottom in that vid is super hot for the top, and makes the video awesome as a result. However, the top seems sorta distracted. At least he's not adding bad acting on top of his distraction.

 

[HappyBoi]

Why are you two so gay? Based on what you've said in this thread, I really want to fuck the pair of you.

Hey catch me on a 1% day and who knows what could happen :tongue:

I'm so happy they are! :biggrin1: Their posts made me pretty.. horny too.

 

[admrbgdk]

Communication is key, much like chemistry. If the bottom is uncomfortable or wants to switch positions, then tell me and we'll do it. But some positions just work better for me than others; like you, I prefer face-to-face.

It's a question of context how the interplay gets negotiated. Sometimes I'm a totally take-charge Dom top, other times I'm more inclined toward something more democratic and collaborative, but I have no desire to be dominated, myself. Part of consenting to have sex with me provides that I'm the driver, the bottom's the passenger. He can suggest turns and directions, but ultimately I see it as my job to get us where we both want to go.

Well said. In addition they need to be hungry and able to take a fucking. But most important is interaction. They are part of this too!

 

[D_Phil_R_Upp]

Oh and I should probably add I really like my bottoms to be loud and verbal. I love guys who moan and squeal and talk.

I find silence or inability to communicate during sex a turnoff.

I love to be verbal and love that so many tops enjoy this. It's making my hole twitch! LOL

In all seriousness, though....I think Hilaire's comment about silence is applicable for anyone in any sexual position. Communication is key. I've been with some very hot guys who weren't communicative, and it felt like they weren't present in the moment, in what was happening. When that happens, no matter how hot the packaging is, you may as well be fucking a piece of cardboard.

I want a guy to tell me when he enjoys it, if he wants me to do something (I try to anticipate but am not a mind reader) and definitely like dirty talk. I want him to open his imagination to me.

It's also a matter of confidence to me, which is by and far the sexiest thing about a man to me. A man making noise and grunting when he's fucking and when he's coming shows me how relaxed and confident he is. Too many guys I've met/played with fucked like they still lived in their parents' basement - no noise. Boring. :frown1:

(okay, sorry, this was about tops and what they want. rant over....)

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

I love to be verbal and love that so many tops enjoy this. It's making my hole twitch! LOL

In all seriousness, though....I think Hilaire's comment about silence is applicable for anyone in any sexual position. Communication is key. I've been with some very hot guys who weren't communicative, and it felt like they weren't present in the moment, in what was happening. When that happens, no matter how hot the packaging is, you may as well be fucking a piece of cardboard.

I want a guy to tell me when he enjoys it, if he wants me to do something (I try to anticipate but am not a mind reader) and definitely like dirty talk. I want him to open his imagination to me.

It's also a matter of confidence to me, which is by and far the sexiest thing about a man to me. A man making noise and grunting when he's fucking and when he's coming shows me how relaxed and confident he is. Too many guys I've met/played with fucked like they still lived in their parents' basement - no noise. Boring. :frown1:

(okay, sorry, this was about tops and what they want. rant over....)

Yeah I've been in threesome and group situations with tops who were pretty much silent, I completely agree that the communication and verbal stuff, and expression of enjoyment is a two way street.

I have a tendency to be really loud, and I'm notoriously filthy mouthed. :wink:

 

[HappyBoi]

Yeah I've been in threesome and group situations with tops who were pretty much silent, I completely agree that the communication and verbal stuff, and expression of enjoyment is a two way street.

I have a tendency to be really loud, and I'm notoriously filthy mouthed. :wink:

....oh god, take me! :X


Okey, sorry, I won't waste more space here.. it's just that I find this thread.. interesting.

 

[Bbucko]

Why are you two so gay? Based on what you've said in this thread, I really want to fuck the pair of you.

I'm default-gay for all the reasons I outlined in this thread, but if I weren't so entrenched in my ways, I'd gladly take you for a test-drive :wink:

Well said. In addition they need to be hungry and able to take a fucking. But most important is interaction. They are part of this too!

I've always said that I don't care what brings you to the table as long as you've brought your appetite. I've had three encounters this week with three different guys, all very different one form the other. Two were insanely crazy nights of filthy monkey sex, one was completely off; the funny thing is that the one who was completely off conformed most closely to my usual physical preferences. You just never know.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Hey catch me on a 1% day and who knows what could happen :tongue:

I'm default-gay for all the reasons I outlined in this thread, but if I weren't so entrenched in my ways, I'd gladly take you for a test-drive :wink:

I'm flattered you two would even consider it :tongue:.

I remember that thread Bbucko - probably the most interesting thread since I joined.

Hey subgirl, maybe we can have a 4 some with them.

I'm so happy they are! :biggrin1: Their posts made me pretty.. horny too.

I see I'm not the only one their posts were working for :biggrin1:

 

[bifnt4all]

I see I'm not the only one their posts were working for :biggrin1:

They not only described what I try to be when I bottom but what I want in a good lover. I usually am vocal and how much depends on whether or not the guy I am with seems to be into it. And if it is good I can be really loud at times. Actually had one guy that said "shhhh your going to wake my neighbors". Trust me I was not faking it either, he definitly knew how to do it right.

 

[Donkeyfan]

I like a balance between looking after the top's needs physically and emotionally but very willing to express how I'm feeling so that my needs are met too. I can submit to a top but I'm in no way subservient to him ... Totally 50/50 all the way