What Do You Want To Hear?

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  1. rope9839

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    Here's a question with the obvious answer "it depends on the girl," but I thought I'd want to try anyways.

    Women are clearly more audiolocially aware than men and it can be a real source of stimulation - in daily life, in the clubs or in "the act."

    This being said, what is it that you really want to here from your guy whenyou are having sex. Screams, moans, dirty talk, instructions, poetry, multiplication tables? Give us your version of ear candy.
     
  2. BruceSter

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    I am no woman, but I'd say... multiplication tables. Wins with an inch on differential equations.

    No, in earnest. I love dirty talk a lot, and am glad my lady friend also loves it, especially "Size Talk" - that leads into a crescendo of moans and screams as she closes in on orgasm.

    Sounds dramatic, but... that's it.
    Bruce
     
  3. ItsJustMe

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    Guess it depends on my mood. Sometimes I don't want to hear anything but his moaning and my heavy breathing, sometimes I like dirty talk, other times romantic words, and even other times daily bits of conversation.
     
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    See guys, we'll never get it!
    Four answers we got from that question.

    Alas, we'll forever be moaning when we should be romantic

    or

    We'll forever be moaning when we should be talking dirty.

    or

    We'll forever be moaning...wait a minute.. I guess all they get is the moaning!!

    LOL

    :evilgrin:
     
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    My experience has been that the right touch pushes their buttons more than what you say. Or maybe I just haven't made the wrong noise before.
     
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    I have to agree I feel the same way. But I would always rather hear just moans than silence. When I hear nothing but heavy breating I worry he can't be enjoying himself.
     
  7. Annie Mae

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    I'm big on dirty talk like cussing and shit, and also like it when he asks if I'm liking it. But it doesnt really matter, long as he delivers. besides, if he even has his wits about him to talk i havent done my job. I also like for him to make a lil noise every now and then. Like a soft moan or something. That shit turns me on like you wouldn't believe.
     
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    I like you, Annie Mae... there are just few things sexier than a girl cursing like a sailor when you fuck her.

    Bruce
     
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    Thx Bruce. i was with this 22 year old guy last night and he loved the shit talking. I would tease him by making him say shit, and if he didnt do it, i'd slow down. He was screaming whatever i wanted
     
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    Ha, so you brief your guys about what they shall say? Nice idea, you don't let the reigns slip, Annie. However, even more than myself talking shit while fucking, I really love the dirty words and curses, swearing and deft talking out of a girl's mouth.

    Bruce
     
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    I can see you are a very sexual woman there, Annie Mae. Between you and me, most of the women's appreciation is always expressed by any of the things you wrote about there, not to mention a few extra's like a momentary gasp and on rare occassion when it's great, she actually tries to arch her back when she cums.
     
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    A girl showing her appreciation really turns a guy on.
     
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    I like signs of life. Dirty talk is very hot during sex, even some commands (do this, do that) delivered with yearning, moaning, goofy sex faces, hearing him talk about what he likes and wants me to do, telling me what he's going to do to me and them doing it- that stuff makes me hot as hell. I like a guy who's aware enough of his surroundings to be able to judge when it's the right time to get into the deeper level stuff, but I don't like shy inhibited sex- it just bores me to tears.
    I like a guy who will give me step by step instructions on how to suck his cock and then moan in delight when I do it, a guy like that will find me on my knees for a very long time. I especially like a man to talk about the building up of his orgasm, this will usually drive me right over the edge.
     
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    Damn, MZ, you sure'd have no problem keeping my interest in you at all.
     
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    Oh god I love it. I love doing it and I like hearing it. I want you to tell me what you are going do to me. I want to hear all the fine details. I want to hear you enjoying yourself .

    I have to admit I am very noisy. But of course there are times when I like a intense visual fuck....where it's all eye contact and grinding and our bodies are doing the talking.

    I also like writing dirty things which is why I like to write comments in the gallery.


    But the best part is when we are out doing something mundane.....shopping, at the parents for dinner and you lean into me and quietly tell me what you are going to do to me later...
     
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    During sex, from a guy, not much. A guy screaming his ass off is vaguely ridiculous in my eyes. Moans, groans, grunts, whatever sounds are acceptable, dirty talk appreciated, dirty threatening and commands (mutually) a very welcome thing.
     
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    I agree, too much noise during sex from a guy is no good. Little gruff pleasure sounds are fine, and some well-timed "dirty" talk is very nice. Especially when I'm about to cum, I like when a guy starts talking, edging me on and such.
     
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    Variety is always something nice, isn't it? If it's a slow, trance-like visual f*ck (thanks, dirtyde), then just the sounds of our heavy breathing, hands rubbing, mouths kissing and bodies moving is h-o-t. If it's a more intense, fast-paced, slam-f*ck, some louder grunts and moans along with some vocalizing about how it feels or what you're experiencing also works. Total silence is a turn-off but so is sounding like the "script" from the porn clip you watched most recently. :smile:
     
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    Well, we must be cousins. Quieter is good for romantic tantric sex, but for slam-fucking, anything goes. Hey- any guy who could remember a "script" while that was going on would have to be one HELL of an actor, haha.
     
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