I am a male around 50 and have been involved with a 35 y/o woman lately. She knows that I am on the "larger" size, she says that my reputation has preceded me through mutual acqauintances. We have been dating a bit and she wants to move to the next level. When she indicated this she made the comment, "I think this little ponygirl has found her stallion". I wasn't sure what she meant but put it in the back of my mind and I looked it up on the web. It seems to pretty much a bondage fetish, but I was wondering what it means for the partner? Is it the same as other bondage or, since it seems to be a "catagory" of its own, is there a lot of "dos and don'ts". I'm not that keen on bondage and I'm hoping the "ponygirl" usage was just off the cuff. Any comments and/or opinions?