So about two months ago a friend from work text me out of the blue and wanted to know if him and his friends could come and drink at my place. I told him no, I really can't stand to be around drunken rowdy men. He was okay with that. We text back and forth about the football game that was on. At one point he started texting personal stuff and how he thought we would be good together and that he's thought about it for a while. I text back that him thinking about me, I would have never guessed that. After a few minutes he apologized for his behavior and to please not be mad at him and he hoped I didn't feel offended. I told him I wasn't mad nor offended by what he said and that we've known each other for a long time. He said okay that made him feel better knowing I wasn't mad or offended. I proceeded to tell him that I prefer he be sober and talk/text me about this kind of thing because someone having a few beers is just that and I respect a man more that can come to me and tell me things when he's sober. I further told him something was obviously on his mind and if/when he wanted to talk to me he could. He responded that made him happy that he could talk to me about it at a later time and for me to please not be mad at him because I seemed like his friend and he doesn't have a lot of those.
So about a week goes by and we were texting again, yes football. Again the personal stuff came up again and I told him that I wasn't like that with men nor do I just go running to them because they express an interest. He apologized for his behavior and said all he wants is honesty, trust and a good time. To me honesty and trust are different building blocks or a different foundation that does not lead up to just a good time. And a good time to me just means fucking. I haven't told him that is how I feel about honesty, trust and a good time. But I did tell him that I wasn't a DTF, FWB nor a FB. He didn't understand those terms so I broke them down to him. He further told me that he would be loyal to only FWB, me, and that he was discrete.
So I thought about it, but I have no libido and I am just not interested in anything sexual, with anyone.
So tell me guys, what does it all mean? Booty call? What's with the honesty and trust being tossed in there? I'm so confused.
So about a week goes by and we were texting again, yes football. Again the personal stuff came up again and I told him that I wasn't like that with men nor do I just go running to them because they express an interest. He apologized for his behavior and said all he wants is honesty, trust and a good time. To me honesty and trust are different building blocks or a different foundation that does not lead up to just a good time. And a good time to me just means fucking. I haven't told him that is how I feel about honesty, trust and a good time. But I did tell him that I wasn't a DTF, FWB nor a FB. He didn't understand those terms so I broke them down to him. He further told me that he would be loyal to only FWB, me, and that he was discrete.
So I thought about it, but I have no libido and I am just not interested in anything sexual, with anyone.
So tell me guys, what does it all mean? Booty call? What's with the honesty and trust being tossed in there? I'm so confused.