For me, it's not right away, but it's when I've gotten wet enough to realize I am.
I don't know about other girls, but being penetrating too soon just has this bad "I'm not ready" feeling, even a finger makes me feel that way....but if I'm already wet and turned on it's not a problem.
I guess I always try seeing the other side's point of view and how it correlates with my own to better understand sex. When I start getting hard I have this desire to have my cock carressed. Not to penetrate, but to rub against something, sucked or pulled gently. (This would be the "I'm not ready" feeling for you)
At a certain point, say about 85% rigid, I want to slide it in something slick and warm. Not necessarily constrictive, but something rough to the touch. When it reaches the "hard as rebar" stage, that's when I need to get my dick choked and bent by something soaked and tight.
na, i prefer that forcing it in feeling.
too wet isn't good for me.
See, I thought you were just being disagreeable just for the sake of being different, but then I realized I knew someone like this. She'd straddle me when I was fully erect, slowly slip the very tip of my glans in, and then almost violently jam the rest of me in. For lack of better terms, it felt like I was splitting her open. She made a comment about the "losing her virginity" feeling.
Oh I love that too...and I wouldn't wait until I was "too wet" just mean I need to at least feel "warmed up"...which with me isn't hard to do.
Too wet? Again, seeking correlation, I can't imagine myself being too hard. How does too wet feel (Dolfette or Fleur)?