What does it mean if a guy is showing off his junk in the gym locker room?

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"as we all know from all the scientific evidence, every male is homosexual whether or not they have never been with another dude or had a sexual attraction to another dude." Tongue in cheek I know, but if a guy is straight 100%, then he is straight and IMO the OP here is seeing more to it than there really is, with due respect to the OP. Someone gave an example of a guy taking off his towel above. Even a straight guy might look at that and say to himself holy f**k, but have no sexual interest in it. Just a guy in the locker room being close to the largest or the largest he has seen. I think even straight guys, while they have no interest in other guys, would take a look at that towel open and wish they had equipment like that! But don't put more into it than there is. He could simply be an exhibitionist as well, proud of what he has and thinks everyone else will be too.
Or, he is not an exhibitionist and other straight guys don't wish anything of the kind. Is it not a possibility that straight men, well endowed or not, just don't care about other men's junk the way gay or bi men do?
 

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Or, he is not an exhibitionist and other straight guys don't wish anything of the kind. Is it not a possibility that straight men, well endowed or not, just don't care about other men's junk the way gay or bi men do?
I agree 100%. If a man is 100% straight, he has no "junk interest". He may notice in passing or whatever, like in barracks where one guy is called "meat" for a reason. But interest in it is nil.
 
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Or, he is not an exhibitionist and other straight guys don't wish anything of the kind. Is it not a possibility that straight men, well endowed or not, just don't care about other men's junk the way gay or bi men do?
As a gay man, I cannot comment directly, but I will repeat something said by a happily married straight female friend, regarding her experiences with men:

"The reason I prefer the social company of gay men is that straight men are always trying to prove they still have one and live in fear that the next guy's is bigger, while gay men know they have one and hope the next guy's is bigger."
 

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As a gay man, I cannot comment directly, but I will repeat something said by a happily married straight female friend, regarding her experiences with men:

"The reason I prefer the social company of gay men is that straight men are always trying to prove they still have one and live in fear that the next guy's is bigger, while gay men know they have one and hope the next guy's is bigger."
So, according to her, straight men are penis-phobic and gay men are penis-philic? I suppose many women prefer the social company of gay men, but it is rather beside the point of the post. The OP and many respondents ran wild with the notion that the subject of the post was "showing off his junk" which sounds to me like projecting one's own hangups on an innocent bystander. I simply want to consider that no motivation existed for "showing off his junk" other than changing his clothes. No wonder straight guys feel put upon.
 
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