I think this presents some evidence that, even in a sex-positive place like this, there is still some stigma attached to homosexuality. I would take a more pragmatic view of these percent descriptions....if you have some attraction to any aspect of the same sex, as well as attraction to the opposite sex, regardless of what you do or don't actually do about it, that is bisexuality.
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I prefer porn with big dicks; therefore, when I see just a big dick and it gives me a tingle, it's because of the association. I imagine what it must be like to fuck a woman with it. I am automatically imagining the rest. It happens when I see my own erection sometimes too.
When I see a dick, I think of sex. When I see a big dick, I think of sexier sex. Viola: arousal without homosexual attraction.
When I see a dick, I think of sex. When I see a big dick, I think of sexier sex. Viola: arousal without homosexual attraction.
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Now sure where i stand here... if me and wife watch porn and a guy and girl are doing it and I get turned on by it does that make me gay or bi? Or, if me and wife watch porn orgy does that make us both bi, gay or lesbian ? So if I don't watch porn at all then I'm stra8 or heterosexual ? If me and wife have sex with mirrors on walls or ceilings again are we bi, gay, lesbian or other ? Obviously when having sex me and wife can't see everything we do so watching porn is a good turn on what we will and want to do. The question I would like to know is how do you put a percentage on being bi ? Now since I'm posting here I guess I could be considered BI sexual but don't know what % it would be . Maybe if I close one eye, squint with the other in a dim lite room without my glasses I could be called 80% heterosexual, I'm just guessing. If a guy just likes cock, doesn't date woman then yes he's 100%. If a guy is married likes pussy but sucks cock even just once I'd say he is 50% . So how do you quantify any other % ? Is the glass half empty or half full, is it partly sunny or partly cloudy ?
The percentage thing is goofy in my opinion. You mention that if a guy sucks cock even just once he is bi-. I dunno....it seems to me that experimentation in and of itself doesn't determine sexuality. If that guy sucked one cock and didn't enjoy the experience, and decides it isn't for him, is he still somewhat bi-?
How do you make a pussy more attractive? Stick a dick in it.
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I think that would be called an open minded sexual being.
How do you make 5 pounds of fat attractive?
Put a nipple on it.
Put a nipple on it.
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Yeah how does one determine percentage... someone could be 98.85841% straight but 3.141592% bi only because they like hair PIE.
Could there be an nth value to this quandary ?
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Thats probably the best answer or... A sexual bias with a marked propensity toward Lingus or Pudenda with a defined rate or proportion per hundred only quantified by said person.
I think it simply speaks to power and allure of a big dick. Based on my own considerable experice, I'd say pretty much everbody is interested in a big dick, at least to sme degree, except for maybe gay women In any locker room in any gym I have evrer used over the years, it is not at all unusual for straight men to show sexual interest in my junk. I know other hung men experince the same thing, so I don't think I'm special.
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what determines you as 80% gay and 20 % straight.
@Fade , thank-you, you described me very well:
On this site, I've received nice compliments from gay and bi guys and it doesn't bother me. I gladly accept compliments from anyone who wants to give me one.
Yes, like me.
Exactly. My comments often include the word "envy".... I can be impressed, I can be envious, I can wish my penis looked like that, I can wish my body looked like that, but I don't get turned on at all by looking at these men.
Yes, this is me too... I'm a little bit of an exhibitionist.
Exactly @Wave85 ... I totally agree.
I disagree. Marooned on an island for years with some dude wouldn't change what I want. I'd just find a private place and masturbate while fantasizing about women. And then after that break, I'd get back to building a boat to help me succeed in ever actually seeing a woman again.
On this site, I've received nice compliments from gay and bi guys and it doesn't bother me. I gladly accept compliments from anyone who wants to give me one.
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Just once? What if he doesn't like it? What if he only likes it a little? What if in his lifetime there are fewer than 5 men to whom he could find himself sexually attracted? What if he can't get turned on enough for same-sex play unless there is an attractive woman to watch or direct?
I don't call myself bisexual because with that particular label, people automatically assume the attraction is equal. For me, it is NOT. Even a very pretty woman with a body I like is less likely to stir up a sexual response in me than a man who is further away from my physical ideal. I would align my life with a man's, but no woman has ever tempted me into daydreams of making a family and growing old together. Another woman living in my house? GTFO. I hate living with women. Furthermore, most of the women I laid with were disappointing and unsatisfactory sexual partners for me. Then there's the fact that most of the women with whom I would like to have sexual contact find a way to turn me off before I can express my burgeoning interest. I've never been distracted by the fantasy or memory of sex with any particular woman, but a man can really get under my skin and spoil my focus. If I think fucking a guy might wreck our friendship, I'll want to discuss that concern, but I can be talked into sex anyway. If I think sex will spoil a friendship with a woman, sex is off-limits. If semen seeps into my panties after sexual contact, I'm turned on again automatically. The very idea of another woman's fluids in my underwear disgusts me. It just isn't anywhere near 50-50 attraction. If I could find a man who was just right for me, I could easily never lay hands on another woman, and not ever give it a second thought, as happens whenever I am monogamous. I have never thought any woman I got physical with could make me not want to ride a real penis on a regular basis. I can't even watch "lesbian" porn scenes because for me, sex without a penis is almost without a purpose, and so many of my same-sex interactions have been boring and tedious.
I do believe sexual orientation is fluid and spectral, but I can quantify mine. I call myself heteroflexible, because I'm mostly oriented toward sex and love with cis-male people, but have experienced significant attraction to trans-male and cis-female people as well. I have never been attracted to any trans-women. Most of the time I report as heterosexual if asked, to avoid confusion or hurting the feelings of a female acquaintance who wants to initiate adult situations with me. But my actual self-identifying label of choice is heteroflexible. I very strongly prefer dudes, but there are women I could hook up with casually.
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My understanding is bisexual you like both male and female and gay is you like only your own sex, i.e.; male to male or female to female and nothing else. I just don't know how you figure out your percentage if you are bi. Gay is 100% and bi would be 50% at least from my point of view. But in the realm of sexuality, if you are comfortable with degrees or % and you like that label , then it really doesn't matter. Just my opinion.
Hi, figgnewton. I'm not sure whether that is a question for me or a statement.
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There are tons of 100% straight guys here who aren't turned on by dick, may not even have a gallery or wish to look at another man's gallery. There are men who have no twitch in their dick when they see what others might call an attractive man. There are 100% straight men who wouldn't suck, fuck or receive any sexual activity from another man.
Saying there is no such thing as 100% straight is about as ridiculous as saying 100% gay doesn't exist either.
A 100% straight woman could be a member of a big breast support group and still not be the least bit attracted by other women/breasts but still be involved in the site for whatever reasons.
Saying there is no such thing as 100% straight is about as ridiculous as saying 100% gay doesn't exist either.
A 100% straight woman could be a member of a big breast support group and still not be the least bit attracted by other women/breasts but still be involved in the site for whatever reasons.
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