There's a reason they say "all's fair in love and war".
Realize you are in a sense at war at the moment.
The battle: to get her attracted to you again (if you want her back).
The first weapon: Distance. She must forget about any anger she has against you.
The second weapon: Curiosity that distance creates. Feed her fantasies of what you may or may not be doing. Drive her wild with passion, again like when you were first dating.
The third weapon: Aloofness when you do reconnect after a month or so. The more aloof the better. Curiosity and mystery drives passion like nothing else.
But, make no mistake, you are at war. Once you realize this you're half way there. (if you want her back, that is)
Realize you are in a sense at war at the moment.
The battle: to get her attracted to you again (if you want her back).
The first weapon: Distance. She must forget about any anger she has against you.
The second weapon: Curiosity that distance creates. Feed her fantasies of what you may or may not be doing. Drive her wild with passion, again like when you were first dating.
The third weapon: Aloofness when you do reconnect after a month or so. The more aloof the better. Curiosity and mystery drives passion like nothing else.
But, make no mistake, you are at war. Once you realize this you're half way there. (if you want her back, that is)