What Does Penis Size Mean To Guys?

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I' wouldn't say 'ego' is all of it. Maybe guys with big ones are over ego driven. But if a guy has a decent package that is at least in average range, and instills confidence in any sexual activity, that's important to have for a good self image and successful sexually active life. Without it, you can find some pretty hard times ahead in social life and confidence building,,,and thus need to find other goals in life to make up for total elimination of a sexual life.
 
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It means alot to me. When girls or guys comment on the girth you know their just wondering how it would feel inside them. Mine is not so large that its scary 6.75 x 6.5 but it sure brings smiles to all who see it,touch it. Don't think much about having a smaller one.
 
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I’m pretty average down there, measuring about 6 on a good day, so not a whole lot but I know how to get the job done. My ego is more tied to my ass lol.

That said, there’s a specific headspace I like to be in around big cock. I love a guy who is super into being hung and loves flaunting his size.

All dicks are valid, but imo some dicks are better suited for certain situations than others.
 

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I wouldn't say my ego is tied up in my penis size, but it is an important factor in the trust I put towards relationships and attraction. Obviously I'd like to be valued for the totality of my being, but for a healthy and/or long term relationship I place a lot more trust in lust and desire than compromise and acceptance.
 

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My cock size puts me in the top 2% other in length and girth. Very early in life I never gave it much thought. It is what it is. I thank my dad for his genetics which provided me with my endowment. I was a virgin until I was nearly 21. At that point in my life I had sex with a woman probably 8-10 years older. She made several comments about my size. I had also read the Kensey Report and Masters and Johnson so I was informed. I doubt that I have been over confident being thus endowed, just comfortable. Also comfortable with knowing that I was capable of sexually satisfying partners I was with. In my 40s I became involved with men. My reputation preceeded me. Word got around, thus creating a definite interest in what I possessed. Of course this added to my comfort zone. I do not think less of men who are smaller. I have only been with 3 who were larger.
 
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My cock size puts me in the top 2% other in length and girth. Very early in life I never gave it much thought. It is what it is. I thank my dad for his genetics which provided me with my endowment. I was a virgin until I was nearly 21. At that point in my life I had sex with a woman probably 8-10 years older. She made several comments about my size. I had also read the Kensey Report and Masters and Johnson so I was informed. I doubt that I have been over confident being thus endowed, just comfortable. Also comfortable with knowing that I was capable of sexually satisfying partners I was with. In my 40s I became involved with men. My reputation preceeded me. Word got around, thus creating a definite interest in what I possessed. Of course this added to my comfort zone. I do not think less of men who are smaller. I have only been with 3 who were larger.


i'm glad you are a confident man. i was a late bloomer and have been told repeatedly that i have a nice size cock. that helped bring me out of being abused verbally and made fun of because of a speech inpediment when i was very young. i know that i can fuck a woman and satisfy every longing her pussy has for a man. have enjoyed a few guys who know how to pleasure a man.
 
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I am 6'4" , my height means more than my penis size . Everyone can see me in a crowd - what the other guys in the locker room or standing next to me at a urinal think really has no influence . As a grower it is not much to look at , but as one of the guys said to another in the Y sauna - just wait a few minutes ..............
 
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I'm not sure its ego...but I think having a larger cock gives one more confidence. Like being seen naked in public or with a partner..if you're large there is usually less to be hesitant about rejection. Like if one is depanted in life...having the world see a large cock hanging there as opposed to a small one shrivled up...that just naturally brings about more confidence in life in my opinion. Its more rare to see a hung guy try to hide his cock than a smaller guy. Obviously this has nothing to do with performance in bed...but I think just in general it leans toward more confidence.
 
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I'm not sure its ego...but I think having a larger cock gives one more confidence. Like being seen naked in public or with a partner..if you're large there is usually less to be hesitant about rejection. Like if one is depanted in life...having the world see a large cock hanging there as opposed to a small one shrivled up...that just naturally brings about more confidence in life in my opinion. Its more rare to see a hung guy try to hide his cock than a smaller guy. Obviously this has nothing to do with performance in bed...but I think just in general it leans toward more confidence.


This is 100% accurate it's a confidence thing, and honestly it is a bit superficial thinking about "first impressions". They really do carry the day -- along with the confidence, so yes dick size matters.

And yes @la6nine it has very much to do with ego.
 
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I think people like to view themselves as special/unique and for men, a lot of attention is put on penis size. We can become obsessed with it at an early age and can develop insecurities or out of check egos over what we perceive ourselves to possess.
I think the reality is that size doesn’t matter at all and it’s also the most important thing in the world all at the same time. It’s hard to avoid the subject coming up in some form or other.
It matters to who it matters to and it doesn’t to who it doesn’t. Does it take a 9 inch cock to rock someone’s world? No. I have heard more complaints about massive cocks than compliments, as far as from people who have had to actually instert them into their orifaces. Of course there are size queens (thank God!) and that is different because it is more of a fetish.
I guess I just hope people are comfortable with what they have, no matter the size. You don’t even need to have a dick to make someone else cum.