Perspectives on this issue -- in all its contexts, e.g., sex appeal, sexual gratification, manly appearance, the male ego, etc. -- vary greatly among individuals. Penis size is very important to some people, very unimportant to some, and every degree in between to others. Most people tend to believe their own values are the right ones (about penis size and everything else) but, really, who could answer this question for everyone? Like most of the other well hung men on this site, I suspect, my big dick admittedly is important to me, and I find it's important to my sexual partners. Truthfully, I'd even take keeping my big dick over being very rich. So there! LOL. I think the importance of penis size to any one person is just one of the countless things in life one should take in balance with everything else. However, I do think I see the poster's main point. Having a big dick is really nifty, sure, but rationally, I know it's not in the same league as world peace, the health of loved ones, an so on. Keep in mind, though, some things one may desire in life -- for yourself, for the world, whatever -- may not be highly or reliably obtainable. But, hey, if you're a man with big dick, or your sexual partner has a big dick, and you like it, then it's okay to be happy about it. Finding the joy in what you have is a good approach to life.