fortiesfun
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So, here is the thing, HORSEHUNGJOCK, what you are worrying about is your "identity." How you think of yourself. But identity isn't a real "thing." It is in your head. Put whatever label you want on yourself, but don't get too invested in it, and for God's sake, don't put too much investment in other's labels either. Compared to actual behavior, they are rarely accurate.
Fact is, according to the best research, in the course of their post-adolescent lives, about 80% of men will have sexual experiences with both genders. Maybe not a lot, and maybe not forever, but THE VAST MAJORITY of men will try a little M2M along the way, well after pre-teen playing around is over. What it makes you, if you ask me, is late to the party, but perfectly normal.
If you want a label, for now, why don't you use LPSG's excellent "unsure." Seems an accurate assessment.
Fact is, according to the best research, in the course of their post-adolescent lives, about 80% of men will have sexual experiences with both genders. Maybe not a lot, and maybe not forever, but THE VAST MAJORITY of men will try a little M2M along the way, well after pre-teen playing around is over. What it makes you, if you ask me, is late to the party, but perfectly normal.
If you want a label, for now, why don't you use LPSG's excellent "unsure." Seems an accurate assessment.