What does 90% gay and 10% str8 mean to me? Well, I identify as a gay male. I'm attracted to the male form, I imagine myself having a male significant other, and I enjoy having sex with a man. That combination feels really comfortable. However, once upon a time I did have a few girlfriends, and did enjoy the fooling around part with them (never had intercourse...this was back when I was a teen and wanted nothing to do with anything that could possibly make a baby, though we did everything else). I never felt that my crushes on girls were forced, I never thought I was going through the motions when I was dating, but all the while I acknowledged that I liked guys and that when I went to college, I'd let everyone know and possibly find a guy for me. Up until my first boyfriend, I figured I was bi. After my first boyfriend, I knew in what compartment I felt more comfortable. I don't have as strong a physical drive for women, and I don't particularly wish to have a girlfriend. If I was presented with a situation of casually having fun with a girl, and I wasn't dating anyone else, I'd go for it. But I don't think I'd seek it out on my own. That whole mix put together makes up my 10% str8.
Oh, and add to that the fact that I have no fashion sense, can't decorate a room, don't know how to do hair or makeup, don't dance with my hands in the air...
