what does your upbringing say about you

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just wondering what your upbringing "the way you were raised" was like regarding being naked, sex, relationships, any thing that mad you YOU today



my self naked was not something looked good upon, no talk about sex even the "talk was very akward" and the becoming a man and changes wow very not what I would say welcoming.

about sex and the things that go on before sex that talk was very stressful I found out that I was doing something not supposed to but caring for my needs did not stop me lol Ive told my wife that I have "mastered my own domain" yet still take care of business aswell Us guys have to take care of our selves
all in all had great upbringing and would not have wanted it any other way
 

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Are you saying obliquely that you were told that masturbation is sinful?

My upbringing shapes many aspects of how I live today, but my attitudes toward nudity, sex and related matters have nothing to do with my parents' attitudes, dictates or actions.

There was no visible nudity in my family. People were nude in the shower, and at no other time. My parents were not prudes about sex, but it was not discussed much, either. We children got no admonitions or instructions, and only very general information about functional anatomy and reproduction.

My body acceptance had a lot to do with my being gay. It wasn't a hard decision to be nude around others, like at the beach, as I've always had a nice body and a respectable cock. But my parents probably would not approve if they knew I have been socially nude or had as much sex as I have.

Our upbringing may have influenced our "relationships toward relationships", for lack of a better term. Neither I nor my two siblings have ever married, and we're all in our 50s. I'm quite sure I will not have nieces or nephews, and my folks will not have grandchildren. It's not their right, anyway.
 

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Careful. Talking about about anything prior to the age of eighteen is against TOS.
 

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I was raised by a single mom that tried to teach me that there is only one thing that men want and one thing they are good for. I use sex as a weapon whenever I can and have never regretted it, it comes naturally to me. I have problems being faithful and get bored very easily.


The lack of a father figure I've been told is where my love for bondage and SM stems from.

There is probably a lot more to be said about me on this topic but as LaFemme mentioned anything under the age of 18 is in violation of the ToS, I'm a bit reluctant to share more.
 

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Country raised in the 50s / 60s
Rural NZ
was a Godsend, as far as i am concerned
hence no formal education as well
NO regrets ..
Lifetime of work Hands On with people
usually achieved beyond what was expected
LPSG in retiremnent, is a huge Joke
(in a nice way)
 
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Are you saying obliquely that you were told that masturbation is sinful?
I was. :redface:

Other than that - lower middle class, traditional centre-right values (in a staunch labour neighbourhood), kinda suburban. Umm... dunno what else?

Swung more central, slightly left myself now, tho.