What dominant stuff makes you go crazy

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Im trying gay dating apps and a lot of bottoms always ask me „nice you are a top, are you dominant in bed?“

What do they expect me to do in bed? Any skill or move, advice which make them super horny? (hold their hands like tied together, slap their ass cheeks, hold their neck?)
 

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Im trying gay dating apps and a lot of bottoms always ask me „nice you are a top, are you dominant in bed?“

What do they expect me to do in bed? Any skill or move, advice which make them super horny? (hold their hands like tied together, slap their ass cheeks, hold their neck?)
ass slapping does the trick for me personally but i can't speak for every bottom
 
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I like to have my ass smacked, light choking, just all around dominant love be be doggy and have a top push my face into the bed and grab my hips hard as he fucks prob a lot more but those are the first I thought of
 

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Im trying gay dating apps and a lot of bottoms always ask me „nice you are a top, are you dominant in bed?“

What do they expect me to do in bed? Any skill or move, advice which make them super horny? (hold their hands like tied together, slap their ass cheeks, hold their neck?)
Always remember that a sub needs your cock more than you need his holes. (I say this as a 100% sub)
 

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I wouldn't get caught up in the finer details. That comes with experience. Basically focus on being in control. Be the one who dictates what happens.

The secret though is listening to what the bottom is doing. If he's deathly silent, do something else. If he's moaning, do it more. If he keeps asking for Jesus, remember what that thing is and use it when you want him to orgasm.
 

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Dominance, to me, includes a lot of dirty talk. I like the top to tell me what to do and call me names. I like to be forced to strip and present my hole for his inspection. In other words, be treated as a plaything entirely for his pleasure. Then, to show final dominance, I like him to pull out at the last second and cum all over my face, using it as his cum rag.
 

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amazing advice. some bottoms don't moan are so shy
An advanced tip is to ask the bottom questions that require him to say yes. I don't like "no" answer questions or questions that require a sentence. Basically it's rhetorical but you want him to respond. This gives you the feedback you need based on how emphatic his yes is.

The other key dialogue is praise. The kind of praise you give a dog you love when you are rubbing his tummy. Not a high pitched loud voice, a deep quiet voice.

Telling him what to do is good to. If he does something without asking, you don't need to correct him. Just tell him to do it a different way. Eg if he opens his mouth to suck your cock, rub your thumb across his lip, tell him he has a nice cock sucking mouth. Tell him to open wider, stick your fingers in his mouth and tell him he's a good boy then stick your cock in.
 

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Please tell me experiences / stories about big cock lovers getting suprised by an average dick and had amazing sex.

I have a question for the bottoms who love big dicks. If someone who’s not big is fucking you, is there something he can do that makes you equally satisfied? Like fucking faster or rougher?

Maybe looking the bottom in the eyes or hold his arms or legs, making him more submissive giving him less control. What about the second hole I heard here in this forum?
Guys you are so experienced, can you also help me with this matter?
Fucking guys who only love XL cocks
 

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An advanced tip is to ask the bottom questions that require him to say yes. I don't like "no" answer questions or questions that require a sentence. Basically it's rhetorical but you want him to respond. This gives you the feedback you need based on how emphatic his yes is.

The other key dialogue is praise. The kind of praise you give a dog you love when you are rubbing his tummy. Not a high pitched loud voice, a deep quiet voice.

Telling him what to do is good to. If he does something without asking, you don't need to correct him. Just tell him to do it a different way. Eg if he opens his mouth to suck your cock, rub your thumb across his lip, tell him he has a nice cock sucking mouth. Tell him to open wider, stick your fingers in his mouth and tell him he's a good boy then stick your cock in.
how do you know exactly what a beta bottom needs ;-) ?
 
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1. When I don't want sex, I want the guy to dominate. He was confident but not rude. In the process of sex, I get excited and enjoy.
2. After orgasm, I lose interest in sex, good guys usually stop fucking, they understand. I feel awkward when a guy doesn't cum. I prefer to continue sex until he comes.
These are two things when I need a man to dominate



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