What drives nasty, miserable people?

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Some people are that way because they don't know any better.

They're still in Plato's cave, watching the shadows on the wall, unaware that there are other ways to see and other ways to behave.

And people trap themselves into their behavior because they feel what they do is inevitable, and nothing else matters.


I dont know if I would say they dont know any better. There is ignorance and then there is just lack of caring. When people feel entitled to say and do whatever they wish regardless of how it affects the greater whole then you have confusion to say the least. There are very few at least on this board who dont KNOW better. They may not care. Or may be too busy looking at what someone else is doing that they can justify their own behavior. It is sort of like kindergarten children whom the teacher has told to be quiet. When the teach still hears noise it is usually the kindergarten students telling each other to be quiet not thinking that their own speech is contributing to the problem.
 

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The ability to make oneself look better, ego-boost, release of built up anger from daily living, pure hatred of what the person has displayed for us to see, the game in it, the fun in peoples serious reactions when you mean nothing and the sheer hillariousity of it.
 

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It's amazing how people can shift the blame for their faults onto others :) What happened to social skills?
We don't seem to have those in America anymore. :frown1: :mad:

]"Life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you respond to it."[/B]
So true! I need to work on my responses. :redface:
 

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What drives nasty, miserable people?
Do they just want to pull everyone else into their misery?


Not knowing exactly what to do about their situation so they vent. Vent not for a solution but absolution. Sometimes the anger is a high. And people like that like to be passionately angry.
 

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One man's nasty, miserable person is another man's realist.

Or, in other words, just because person A comes across to person B as nasty and miserable doesn't actually make that so. Sometimes people are just incompatible.


Thank you M.B.!
I am always having to defend my position that,I don't think all people or the world,is all sweetness and light.
Since when is opposing views,a reason to lambaste anyone?
Relax people!
Have a glass of wine or take a xanax!
cigarbabe:saevil:
 

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i am nasty and miserable because the world is nasty and miserable. you can pretend the world is one big suck off if you and be complacent, but i am here to constantly remind you of your failings so that you may better yourself.
 

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Some people are that way because they don't know any better.

They're still in Plato's cave, watching the shadows on the wall, unaware that there are other ways to see and other ways to behave.

And people trap themselves into their behavior because they feel what they do is inevitable, and nothing else matters.


you take message boards too seriously
 

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I'm thoroughly sick of most of the people who spout off on this site about haters, they've bought it on themselves by the unpleasant way they've interacted with others on this site, or by being caught out in blatant untruths.People on here have been very tolerant and more than generous with their time and advice, they ask for advice then whine when the advice they get isn't what they want to hear, they whinge when someone refuses to suck up to them, they don't use any self analysis to work out why people are sick of their shit. You reap what you sow, if you don't want people to hate you don't be so fucking hateful.