When you first joined here Mem there were a good few people who considered you a troll, I didn't and in fact I spoke up for you on at least one occasion and tried to take your threads seriously. You were advised by a few people not to be overly defensive when someone disagreed with you and you did change the way you posted, although you were still quick to have a go at someone you perceived as 'hating you' you lightened up a little. However, there are some people on the net who think that being on the net means they have carte blanche to insult, lie and manipulate with no comeback - when they get the comeback their posts deserve (people calling them out on their lies, people questioning their right to freely insult people without getting back what they dished out) they instantly go into full on paranoia and start drivelling on about haters, people being in cliques, people being jealous, people transferring, etc. This is the net, you can join a new site and you've got a clean slate, you can make an unpleasant thread or an unpleasant post and people will treat that as a new start - but you can only do this so often, when it looks like your modus operandi is being a pile of shit people are as sure as hell going to notice. When your threads are starting to attract numerous negative replies it's not the numerous people who are at fault IT'S YOU!!!!! These people who are labelled haters aren't hating anyone, they're weary of seeing trolls pull their heads back in at the last minute and indulge in a giant bout of arse licking in the hopes it will make people think 'oh I was mistaken, they're ok.'
I wasn't addressing this to you Mem, while I think your posts are sometimes ill thought out and you're often overly defensive I don't and never have had a problem with what you post.