What ever happened to the person you lost your virginity to?

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She (my first girlfriend, and very young wife at 19) got dumped by her next guy (she cheated on me and left me for him), raised their two kids on her own, became a born-again über religious Catholic, went back to school, made a successful career in the civil service being as she put it "a bullshit calling bitch" in the unemployment benefits sector, gained 60 pounds, and eventually became the spitting image of her mother.

I saw her at the visitation for my deceased father a dozen years ago, and we had a warm reunion and big, genuine hug. All the anger and hurt from my vulnerable youth was then just ancient "water under the bridge". And our views and goals in life were then so different, it seemed all had been for the best.
 

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I continued to have sex with them occasionally until they graduated HS two years ahead of me. One is the DA in a large southern city in the US. The other, I dunno.
 

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The bastard courted me and, as soon as I reached 16 and gave myself up to him, off he went! Looked him up on FB a couple of years ago, he is divorced with kids and a very good job in the city!! Tempted to make contact and lead him on before dropping him like a lead balloon like he did to me! :mad:
 

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I never talked to her after she took my virginity. Which is why I was so not pleased with allowing her to be my first. But oh well, what's done is done.

Simba
 

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Far as I know, she still lives in this area, but what she is doing now, I have no idea.

She was very tall for her age too (close to 6ft @ 14), and could fuck for England.

Shame I did not keep in touch.
 

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He still lives here I believe. It's been a long time since I've seen him. That was... roughly 10 years ago. I saw him once about 5 years ago. We chatted and decided to grab dinner, where we ended up drinking alcohol, which in turn led us back to his place. We slept together that night but nothing came of it.

In high school we were very compatible. When we met up again it was the same story. Our problem is more an issue of commitment and timing. Really nice guy, beautiful blue eyes, and tall which is like my favorite thing ever.



JSZ
 

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He is happily married with 3 kids and still with his wife
after our living to-gether for 8 years odd, in his confused Gay side
We did bring up his sisters child (M) from a baby, so that was an achievement for 2 gay males, in the mid 80s NZ
NO regrets either parties
enz
 

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We are friends. Ever since I left the Bronx and he left Queens we don't talk as much. But his wife finally knows I'm not threat to her so it is always easy to reconnect. If I call him, and their son is asleep, he'll spend a couple of hours catching me up on his life and catching up on mine. Then for a few weeks we'll send email and photos. Then we'll lose touch again. He sent me an email about a month ago. I should call.
 

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The first man I wound up choosing by default: he was easy pickings and I was anxious to get it over with. We worked together until he left after our little "romance" soured in a few months. I doubt he's still alive, seriously, and I haven't seen him in well over 34 years. I can only recall his first name, though I remember vividly what he was like.

The first woman was more like two curious kittens exploring, though we were in our 20s. She had a regular BF, and was a sort of friend-of-a-friend. It was a one-time thing and I doubt she even remembers me: I've long forgotten her name.
 

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This sounds like my first time!

The thing was, I was really overdue but didn't want to get it over with with some closeted peer, and my gay friends would have been like incest :redface:

He was charming, had a beautiful voice and had a commanding presence, and he was older (mid-40s), so I thought I'd have a gentle coach rather than some form of sexual assault (which, at any rate, this was not).

He came twice, I didn't come at all; the attempt at anal with me bottoming went really poorly. He wasn't rough or unkind as much as he was just very selfish, and I didn't really have a clue WTF I was doing, though evidently he was too selfish to have even noticed. When I told him when we were done that he'd been my first, he was shocked.

Later that summer I met some great, friendly guys and had some fun, but it would take years before I figured out how I was cross-wired :tongue:
 

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Anyone know how to get in contact with a prostitute from Amsterdam... from 10 years ago? Only way I'm going to know what happened. Before anyone gets on their high horse about it too, I'm 22 years old. It happened, I moved on with life.
 

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I haven't a clue and really don't wish to explore the idea of touching-base with him once again (no pun intended :tongue:). My first wasn't exactly what I would characterize as a precious experience... more of a stepping stone.

(to be honest I think I was a bit mean to him)