What ever happened to the person you lost your virginity to?

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The thing was, I was really overdue but didn't want to get it over with with some closeted peer, and my gay friends would have been like incest :redface:

He was charming, had a beautiful voice and had a commanding presence, and he was older (mid-40s), so I thought I'd have a gentle coach rather than some form of sexual assault (which, at any rate, this was not).

He came twice, I didn't come at all; the attempt at anal with me bottoming went really poorly. He wasn't rough or unkind as much as he was just very selfish, and I didn't really have a clue WTF I was doing, though evidently he was too selfish to have even noticed. When I told him when we were done that he'd been my first, he was shocked.

Later that summer I met some great, friendly guys and had some fun, but it would take years before I figured out how I was cross-wired :tongue:


I wasn't overdue - actually, I was the first in my group of friends - but I'd decided I wanted to hurry up and get it over with. I didn't want it to be a big deal I had to go through with some boyfriend, I just wanted done.

So I picked a random guy at a party. Got well and truly drunk so it wouldn't hurt. Went off to a bedroom with him and did the deed. And it DID hurt! It was exceedingly painful. He used a banana flavoured condom (can still smell it now).

A week or two later I heard from friends that he'd been telling people he was so big that he 'split me open' (his term). I then made very sure those same people were told that his cock wasn't at all sizable, any pain on my behalf was due to me being a virgin. He never quite managed to live that one down during the few years we had shared friends.

I was silly enough to have sex with him again a few times over the course of those years (alcohol can be a bad thing). It didn't hurt anymore, but his skills didn't improve any.
 

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I was silly enough to have sex with him again a few times over the course of those years (alcohol can be a bad thing). It didn't hurt anymore, but his skills didn't improve any.

I was, by far, the last of my circle of friends to get it over with :tongue:

Anyway, once a lousy lay, always a lousy lay; that's what I say.
 

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The year I finished school, I helped my best friend move from Melbourne to Sydney where he was starting uni the next year. I had a huge crush on hm, but alas he was straight and despite my best attempts to lure him into a sexual relationship, he graciously declined (thanks Al you're the best friend ever). Anyway, I had done my job and Al was settled into his new home. Having three months before I had to be home to start uni myself, I spent a couple of weeks backpacking up the east coast.

When I arrived in Brisbane, I was sitting on my pack in the city square getting myself oriented, I noticed this very handsome guy passing nearby. After a while watching him, I realised that he was cruising another guy just ahead of him. I laughed to myself and he happened to turn around and saw me looking at him and having a good old chuckle. He came over, introduced himself and asked what I was laughing at. I told him that I thought the guy he was cruising was very cute, but suggested that I didn't think he was going to have any luck. I don't think I had ever been so upfront, and my normal shyness was overcome by the carefeeness which travel brings. So we chat and arrange to meet the next day. The next day I had my first sexual experience with another person, and it was pretty damn good.

I found out that he was more that twice my age, but had been gifted with the genes to be forever handsome (kind of like Bbucko to look at). Anyway, he invited me to stay at his place and initiated me into man to man sex, and was always the perfect gentleman (except he wouldn't let me fuck him). I spent a month living with him.

He owned an art gallery and was keen to take me to his work and introduce me to his friends and family. It was a great time in my life, and when the time came, it was hard to part. We stayed in touch for a few years after that. The last I heard from him directly he had hooked with one of his employees who had bought a share in his business. He was very happy.

About twelve months ago i read an article about him and his partner in the Sunday supplement magazine. Now semi retired, he is a benafactor and mentor to emerging artists. Thanks and love to you M.
 
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What a neat story wallaboi almost reliving such with you as i read it
Arty guys do tend to be magical Huh? ha
Reminds me also of the guy i spent 8 years with was a real bugger? at one stage
I was also relatively shy but had somehow managed to get a guy from Melbourne to communicate by mail, we exchanged photos etc and he was due to come over to NZ for a visit (with me of course)
I had only been with J for a few months, so he had NO holds on me, but the asshole was cunning enuf to locate ALL my correspondence with the Melbourne guy and disposed of it
BASTARD i hated him for that, felt i had let the Melbourne guy down terribly just the way it was my turn to write him and i couldnt
He never wrote back so i was lost.
In the end i actually found and encouraged J with his future wife, so lost out big time with what he pulled on me, Jealousy it was
Fckn relationships ha can often do without em huh?
enz
 

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We broke up because she was really clingy.

Her profile pictures on facebook are all of her and her new guy. They look nice together, she's smiling in every photo. Totally clingy and all over him obviously, but I am happy she seems to be happy.

I hope he doesn't break her heart like I did.
 

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I married her. She's the fine looking woman in my pics...

In all likelihood I will live my life only having had intercourse with one woman, and I'm completely cool with that.
 

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He 's my best friend's brother, she and I have been friends since we were 12, I haven't spoken to him since I was a teenager, I have no idea what he looks like and have never googled him.

She's married, with 2 kids and working as a nurse, the last time I ran into her on the gay section of the beach, in Pensacola, during a Memorial Day weekend several years ago (and she was WITH her husband!). She refused to stay in touch after that, (I scare her - emotionally) so... no idea what she's up to these days.
 

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I had sex with two girls at the same time.

With one, we are getting married and live together, happily. :)

The other perusing a career in the film industry. She wants to be a comedy director. She's actually coming to visit today.
 

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I am hesitant to contacting the guy I first had sex with. Should I send a friend request in Facebook? Or should I just observe from a distance and let it go? What good will come of a meeting?
 

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The girl who got my virginity gave me hers at the same time. We've been married (to each other!) almost 37 years now. She's still sexy looking, and loves sex. In fact,she probably asks for it more often than I do!