JaimeB
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- 80% Gay, 20% Straight
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these terms are the result of deviance labeling. they are left-overs from the days when people assumed everybody was str8, and being gay or bi was "deviant."
i'm glad we seem to be better grounded in reality now.
for me personally: i grew up knowing i liked boys, then went through a three-year relationship where i was exclusive with a woman, but still had fantasies about other men. then i went back to (almost) exclusively dating men and got into ltr's with men only.
i still see women in the street that look good to me. i still watch str8 porn and jerk off to it. (although it helps that there are guys in it, it's still hot because they're fucking women.) my husband bitches at me if say anything about a pretty girl's tits or ass, but then he's insanely jealous of other guys, too.
life is too real or complicated to make absolute labels, but we all have some kind of self-image around what we like sexually. i would say i'm pretty far over on the gay side of the kinsey scale, but i'm not totally immune to feminine charms, even if circumstances keep me away from them...
i'm glad we seem to be better grounded in reality now.
for me personally: i grew up knowing i liked boys, then went through a three-year relationship where i was exclusive with a woman, but still had fantasies about other men. then i went back to (almost) exclusively dating men and got into ltr's with men only.
i still see women in the street that look good to me. i still watch str8 porn and jerk off to it. (although it helps that there are guys in it, it's still hot because they're fucking women.) my husband bitches at me if say anything about a pretty girl's tits or ass, but then he's insanely jealous of other guys, too.
life is too real or complicated to make absolute labels, but we all have some kind of self-image around what we like sexually. i would say i'm pretty far over on the gay side of the kinsey scale, but i'm not totally immune to feminine charms, even if circumstances keep me away from them...