I found out my BF was cheating. He created a gayromeo profile and was meeting guys on line and in person. With one guy it became a regular thing including a weekend away while I thought he was at his parents in another town. I found out and asked him to move out. Anyway, he claims he never had sex but he eventually admitted that there were blow jobs involved but since there was no penetration, there was no sex! Is a BJ sex or am I over reacting? Now he's being nice like he wants back in. He wants to "start over" again, as when we first met but live apart. But he's not showed any of the characteristics he showed 4 years ago. I mean, he's acting more like a friend and less like someone interested in something more. He came over for dinner and wound up staying the night. No kiss goodnight, no hug, nothing. So it makes me wonder if he's just saying "all the right things" but his body language is giving away his true feelings. know what I mean? Moreover, when I broach the subject of living apart but being monogamous/exclusive he changes the subject. Should I be running like my hair is on fire?