What finally made you decide to get boxers?

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  1. eyescream

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    I was dating this guy who was wearing briefs all the time. I didn't want to hurt his feelings by telling him briefs were a turn off so I never said anything. Years later we meet again and all of a sudden he's wearing steamy hot boxers.

    I do wonder what's made him finally wear boxers. I'm guessing it's a girl who had the 'balls' to tell him to or his friends.

    What made you decide boxers were what you should be wearing and not briefs? Anyone here had a girl tell you to get rid of those briefs?

    Oh yeah, the question goes to guys who prefer boxers to briefs.
     
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    I just remember my mates telling me to wear boxers because briefs are for old men and unfashionable....i also had many other people tell me to wear boxers so my balls weren't tight and also so that my cock had rooom to swing and grow :)
    i hope that answers your question
     
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    i'm curious why u think briefs are a turn off,
    was he wearing big white high waisted "pee-wee's big adventure" briefs?

    i dont' think women in general find boxers hot and briefs not.

    i've always mixed up the underwear i do wear, mostly i go without, using underwear more as lounge wear by itself. boxers boxerbriers, and even briefs when it's casual nite at the house.
     
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    When I was 13, my parents suggested that I start wearing boxer shorts like Dad wore. So I did.
     
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    I came late to the boxers party. I used to hate boxers, but now I love them and won't wear any other kind of underwear. Here's how it happened.

    I wore briefs from the time that I moved on from diapers as a toddler all through grade school and high school. Jockey made some really nice SLIM GUY briefs in the late '70s in a multitude of colors with white contrasting waistband and legbands. Jim Palmer, a baseball star, did many of the Jockey ads, and many young guys bought Jockey brand after seeing Jim in his Jockey briefs. I was very fit, and they looked smokin' hot on me. They felt good, too, for weight training, running, and racquetball. I pretty much wore them all day every day. I bought a few different boxers just for fun because my best friend wore them. I could never get into boxers because I didn't like my junk bouncing all around. Plus, I'd always pop boners when I wore boxers.

    Fast forward to the mid '90s and the height of boxers popularity. So many guys at San Diego State wore boxers when I was in college, and they would always dress so you could see their boxers. I just could never see why they liked them. I'd wear them sometimes knowing that I'd be walking around campus with a hard on all day and wore boxers to be kinky. Still didn't like how they felt.

    The thing that turned me in the mid 2000s was one day I saw a young guy at the gym who was wearing white mesh gym shorts with striped boxers. You could see the pattern of the stripes show through the mesh fabric. Korny, yet hot in an odd sort of way. Even better, you could plainly see the outline of his hanging dick moving around as he walked from one piece of equipment to the next. It was amazing how visible his dick was. When he layed spread eagle on the bench press, I about died. It was easy to follow the stripes as they curved around his dick head. It was so obvious, that it killed me not to stare. All of a sudden, I saw the sexy side of boxers. This guy knew what he was doing, and purposely dressed to flash everyone at the gym. It made me ferociously horny. I had mesh gym shorts at home. I had boxers at home. When I combined the 2, I love how my dick outline looked hanging in gym shorts instead of an undefined lump with briefs. So, I had a new found motivation to give boxers an honest chance. I liked how my dick showed in corduroy jeans and track pants as it hung down the right side. It was cool to catch people checking me out and I didn't feel the least bit embarrassed that they were looking at my dick. After a few weeks, I got used to hanging loose and knew that I could never go back. Now, I can't stand to wear briefs or even boxerbriefs. Loose feels better. I can deal with wearing cycling shorts when I ride my bike, but all other times, I can't handle anything snug. It's boxers or freeball for me.

    San Diego Boxer Guy
     
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    I asked to wear boxers like my did had when I was 11 or so. Wanted to wear the same kind of underwear he did, and not "little kids" underwear (briefs). that was the main reason I asked. then I realized they were a lot more comfortable and roomy as I was growing by then and loved hanging.
     
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    happened in high school. boxers were the cool thing to wear and so me and my buddies all switched out of peer pressure i think, even though some of us didn't like hanging loose because of the spontaneous boners during teenage years.
     
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    I prefer boxers because of the comfort due to all the space that's available, they make it feel like I'm not wearing any underwear.
    The circulation down there is so good that my flaccid cock permanently hangs lower.
    I do have some briefs and I don't like the way they squeeze all the blood out and keep it shrivelled, sometimes it gets stuck in a straight out position and looks like a tiny erection!!
     
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    I started wearing them when I was a freshman in a coed dorm. Girls were always up on the floor and a nice pair of plaid boxers were a lot less revealing than Jockey briefs if a chick happened to be on the floor when I was headed to the shower. Most of the other dudes were wearing them too.
     
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    It started in college. It was always hot at night so I slept either in the nude or I just wore shorts. Eventually I decided to shift to boxers since theres more room, my balls dont hang that low but I dont like them being squished because of my briefs and my dick has more room than compared to briefs. One of the main reasons why I switched to boxers was because it hurts when I get a stiff one while wearing briefs. Besides now that I wear boxers, when I get home from school I just take my pants off and im all set. LOL.
     
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    I never made a switch to boxers, and never will. (except to sleep in). Why any guy would wear them is a mystery to me. Briefs support your balls, the make a bulge which boxers don't, and they look hot. I do not agree that briefs are little boys underwear. In fact, if we were thoughtful about it, and HAD to wear two different styles, little boys should wear boxers when they don't need the support, but switch to briefs when their balls drop and grow. Still, it'd be best if all guys wore briefs all the time.
    Seen a guy in boxers in the locker room? boring. Seen a guy working out in big ol' basketball shorts with boxers underneath? Boring. No bulge; nuthin.' Seen a guy with a bulge in his briefs or jockstrap? HOT.
    There's been a lot written on this topic cuz guys love what's next to our balls. I say Get rid of boxers and go back to real men's underwear: BRIEFS!
     
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    Started wearing them as a teen for comfort. I eventually gave up and haven't worn underwear for a number of years.
     
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    ya, i'd prefer to wear no underwear than boxers

    i just don't like the extra bulk, i hang big soft so boxers tend to get all wrapped around my junk or get dislocated and i end up with my dik hangin out one leg and my balls hangin out the other leg anyway. not a good feeling

    wearing boxers under clothes is like: "ya i'll take some crumpled up newspapers and stuff them in my jeans all around my cock and balls that will feel great!"

    boxers are good for wearing as shorts, when you have to answer the door or go out to get the mail, underwear, not so much
     
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    i was at home recently and switched to boxers for a day - partly because i was doing laundry, partly because thats what I had at home and partly because I wanted to wear something I didnt have to take back dirty.

    What a difference from the boxer briefs I normally wear! I felt like I had no support at all...
     
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    In fourth grade when we had to start changing for gym I made my mom buy me boxers. I had two pairs for the 2 gym days. Now I still wear boxers but also wear boxer briefs as I find them a lot sexier and more support ;)
     
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    I agree with what everyone is saying about boxers bunching up. i either free ball or wear boxer briefs. i hang big soft, so it holds everything in place and my balls feel better with the extra hold. I do prefer freeballing though, just feels more comfortable.

    i started wearing boxer briefs when i was a sophomore in high school. I used to wear boxers, but my jeans would always look funny with them on, so i switched to boxer briefs just as they began getting big. haven't looked back since.
     
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    I dont wear boxers, when i was kid i wore briefs, switched to boxers at about 10 yo, and have been going commando for 2-3 years 90% of the time..i was getting annoyed that i have to ''fix'' my cock every 10mins because it was in the way, or replace my boxers cause the legs of the boxers were moving upward making it uncomfortable. so i go commando :)
     
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    Temperature. Boxers are much cooler. Never really cared what they looked like. It was a switch I made purely for comfort.
     
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    You have to go outside to get the mail? Is it in one of those boxes on a stick, with a flip-up flag on it, like in the movies?
     
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    Most women I know say if they unzip a guy or see him undress and nasty, baggy, bunched up wrinkled boxers are there they are disappointed compared to seeing a guy in nice fitted, (showing the assets properly) briefs or boxer-briefs.

    Women who play sports but also want to be very attractive, (or perhaps even better said, are athletic minded in-shape types), are more likely to more often be found having the nicer-looking of sports bras to support what they got but also show they spent the time to find pairs that show off their nice breasts in a positive light, so they can look good or even hot in them sometimes while also having the right form-fitting support.

    Similarly, more supportive fitting underwear on a man is sometimes viewed as indicative of athletic in-shape mindedness, as those who more often work out or play sports have to wear nice-looking compression shorts/underwear or jocks and will often carry these over to wearing similar briefs or boxer-briefs that look very good but also are right to provide proper support should they decide to go for an impromptu exercise run, or workout, or play in a pick-up game of some sport with buddies, etc.



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