What "frightens" you off?
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wispandex_bulge
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Honestly, I dont like a partner who is obsessed with big dick. Thats my job...hehe. The other thing I hate is when my partner thinks they know exactly what I should do about "us". Sigh, push comes to shove, and worse comes to worst, I have to get rude adn insulting on their ass...which isnt pleasant for anyone!
wishitwereshorter: weighing twice as much as me... no thats mean. truthfully i hate ditsy girls. intelligence is really hot. and so are glasses. haha. im rambling in my third post...
Two things I really dislike in a partner are jealousy and clinginess. I'm a natural flirt, often without realising it. It doesn't mean that I have any plans to have sex with anyone other than you. If I'm in a relationship, my flirting is quite innocent. And clinging? Please don't smother me. I need time by myself sometimes: we are not Siamese twins. I need room to breathe, and you do as well. Don't question every move I make and glare at every man I speak with.
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OK, I hoped not to have to say it in the other thread and "kill" the discussion, but why not say it here instead?
I'm always weirded out and angered by the emotionally hungry types. Passion is a wonderful thing, but total dependence is just irritating.
I mean, I work all day being kind, postive, and encouraging---I like to come home and be mean-spirited and hateful. :evilgrin:
But I find that I attract the ones who want to "save" me, and that's a big turn-off too.
I'm always weirded out and angered by the emotionally hungry types. Passion is a wonderful thing, but total dependence is just irritating.
I mean, I work all day being kind, postive, and encouraging---I like to come home and be mean-spirited and hateful. :evilgrin:
But I find that I attract the ones who want to "save" me, and that's a big turn-off too.
One word - codependent. I usually have the following response: YOU! Off my planet!
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Probably hypocrisy in most of my relationships. I mean she says one thing then does another deliberately to incite me.
Scare me off? That's a weird term. The only thing that would scare me is stalker like tendencies, and possibly a third nipple! 
There are certain qualities that bother me in prospective partners, but scaring me is pretty difficult. A lot of the ones previously mentioned fit, but my biggest one is fakeness. I can't stand someone who tries to be something they're not. Just be yourself. Fakeness is a surefire way to make me say nice knowing ya, and that's in ANY relationship.
There are certain qualities that bother me in prospective partners, but scaring me is pretty difficult. A lot of the ones previously mentioned fit, but my biggest one is fakeness. I can't stand someone who tries to be something they're not. Just be yourself. Fakeness is a surefire way to make me say nice knowing ya, and that's in ANY relationship.
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I echo what DMW said about jealousy and clinginess. I would also have to put in this category a control freak. My experiences have taught me that these coupled together equate to significant danger that I no longer will tolerate.
Talk about trying to get a measure of trust........
Talk about trying to get a measure of trust........
