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Any thoughts on this article from the March 2009 edition of Glamour?
Why Size Actually Does Matter
Big, small, short, wide: how his package may effect your orgasm - Kaitlin Menza
Here's a study striking fear in men everywhere: Women who had "vaginal orgasms" without extra clitoral stimulation - were more likely to prefer penises 5.7 inches and longer. "The study suggests that the axiom "size matters" may be true for some women," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of Because It Feels Good. Other research hints at why: A longer penis may hit the vagus nerve, near the cervix, which can trigger orgasm. Glamour readers agreed that size can count. "One guy was so small I couldn't even feel it," a 23-year-old says. But bigger isn't always better, notes another woman: "One guy was 11 inches - it felt like I was being ripped in half!" In fact, say sex therapist Sara Nasserzadeh, Ph.D., more women complain to her about pain with well-endowed guys than gripe about small penises. So, how to love whatever your guy's got? If he's smaller, doggy-style can stimulate your G-spot. If he's big, woman-on-top can give you more control. Bottom line, as one reader put it: "If he knows how to use what he's been given - hands and mouth, too - and wants to please, any size works."
Quotes, presumably from readers:
"I find the middle of the size spectrum to be ideal, but if I had to choose an extreme, I would personally rather have a smaller dude than a freakishly huge one." - K.M. 28
"Penis size is not the most important thing at all! I mean, I don't want a guy with a micro thing, but hand placement during sex is much more key for me." - L.H. 22
"I used to be a 7.5 inches or more girl - if I saw a bulge smaller than that, I'd run. Then I met a guy who had a little penis but made up for it with wild sexual tendencies." - L.S. 25
Why Size Actually Does Matter
Big, small, short, wide: how his package may effect your orgasm - Kaitlin Menza
Here's a study striking fear in men everywhere: Women who had "vaginal orgasms" without extra clitoral stimulation - were more likely to prefer penises 5.7 inches and longer. "The study suggests that the axiom "size matters" may be true for some women," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of Because It Feels Good. Other research hints at why: A longer penis may hit the vagus nerve, near the cervix, which can trigger orgasm. Glamour readers agreed that size can count. "One guy was so small I couldn't even feel it," a 23-year-old says. But bigger isn't always better, notes another woman: "One guy was 11 inches - it felt like I was being ripped in half!" In fact, say sex therapist Sara Nasserzadeh, Ph.D., more women complain to her about pain with well-endowed guys than gripe about small penises. So, how to love whatever your guy's got? If he's smaller, doggy-style can stimulate your G-spot. If he's big, woman-on-top can give you more control. Bottom line, as one reader put it: "If he knows how to use what he's been given - hands and mouth, too - and wants to please, any size works."
Quotes, presumably from readers:
"I find the middle of the size spectrum to be ideal, but if I had to choose an extreme, I would personally rather have a smaller dude than a freakishly huge one." - K.M. 28
"Penis size is not the most important thing at all! I mean, I don't want a guy with a micro thing, but hand placement during sex is much more key for me." - L.H. 22
"I used to be a 7.5 inches or more girl - if I saw a bulge smaller than that, I'd run. Then I met a guy who had a little penis but made up for it with wild sexual tendencies." - L.S. 25