What goes through your head?

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  1. B_hungnate

    B_hungnate New Member

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    For the women, I was wondering what goes through your head when you're about to see a guy's cock for the first time. I love when we're getting undressed for the 1st time and she's about to see it. It's so hot waiting to see her reaction. So, for the women, what are you thinking when you're about to see for the 1st time what he's packing? Thanks.
     
  2. Gisella

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    Interesting...

    I have no recollection seeing paying attention to a penis visuals for the first time..the 1st time to me is about touching and feeling I want to be fucked ASAP not look penis but have it deep inside...funny that by the time is 1st time we are hungry undressed very fast and even keep some pieces of clothes while 1st time session... I'm going really pay attention when finish 1st session and going to more slow 2nd.

    The only one I do remember still is my exbf, when we finish 1st session he stand up to go bath and I saw :eek: his soft not erect still so fat all hang huge between his leg never saw anything like that or even closer before. By seeing that I start to conect the puzze pieces lolol: what I had touched and felt vaginaly as an anaconda...later came more pieces and diferent contacts etc.:cool: :wink:

    At least to me was a huge surprise go from a 5"x4.5" to a 9"x6" ...and I had never being exposed to a big penis pics porn big dicks etc etc ...now as I'm so much exposed to so many all types penises for sure would be not such a surprise as it was for me then. :smile:
     
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    B_hungnate New Member

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    Nice. But even if you're just wanting to get fucked, when you're taking your first look at his cock you're seeing what you're going to get fucked with, right? I guess I'm wondering when you're about to see it, are you hoping to yourself that he's big, or are you not thinking about that? I guess maybe you already have idea of what he's packing if you felt around.
     
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    B_Think_Kink New Member

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    I'm usually thinking... please god do not let him be hung like a horse...
     
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    As the question was about the 1st time I saw...:biggrin1:

    No, I did not see as look, just felt in my hands as the fly was opne and he was still in his undies.. by than as he dress penis in condon etc I did not even pay attention because I was still wow with the size I felt in my hand..I was thinking about how he was going to fit me, hurt etc etc..LOL I was a chicken after I felt his penis for 1st time but very exciting too...:cool:

    I'm a kind of person that I would grab and etc only when I will have sex..I'm not teenager to be kept on the borders, plus I love to build up sexual tension etc sometimes happened I have urge to fuck but it soon desapered if I had rush it will not be cool and etc to me. I dont rush to have sex..no, I prefer wait to get to know a bit and not rush into things only because I desire.

    Ah and another thing..I'm much more into penetration than oral...my first reaction is like have inside because of that too..later just later oral. Than as I said I want feel penis inside first.
     
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    Gotta admit I used to live for that reaction as a guy years ago. I dunno though, seemed like it was more me than the women I've been with though. Could be just the luck-of-the-draw, or I've just been lucky. Can't say that excitement has gone away, but it's so much better when the woman actually kind of digs me though. If she really likes me, I've found that kind of thing doesn't matter as much...well at least they'll eventually work their way up or down to it.
     
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    Aw what's wrong? Don't like a little challenge?
     
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    As he is undressing and gets to his underwear and starts pulling them down im in a good mood so being happy and positive im thiniing ' This is going to be good'. My first though after actually seeing it depends wholey on what his dick is like. My thoughts can vary from its so big how can i handle all of that to its not that small, right?. its gorgeous/ugly etc, etc

    But after im over the initial visual reaction it tends to be deciding what i want to do from there. Do i want to suck it, give him a hand job, ask him to masturbate for me or do i want to fuck..

    But it is a time of mixed excited ,anxious and nervous
     
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    An intersting subject indeed.

    Usually there's not so much thinking going on as long as I'm about to see it. The whole process of undressing is more of a routine for me, unless he gives me things to think about, things like "Will his skill increase as we go along?" or "Does he want to eat me up, or why does he maul my neck like that?". The thinking starts when I see the goods, and yes, it's assessing them. Big, average, short? Will he have to make up for something through his tongue skills? What position might be best?

    In aviator's language, I'd refer to this as a mental check list or drill I go through. It's always the same questions, assessing him, guessing the size, picking positions I certainly want to go through with him. And yes, for me it's always these questions. Unless there's somethign exceptional about his penis besides maybe the size, I hardly deviate from these.
     
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    Nah... the easier route is always better..
     
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    Psh. Well you're no fun.
     
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    I wish I could get into the head of a woman right when I was about to fuck her.
     
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    I could honestly not be thinking anything significant, or have a million thoughts flying accross my mind.. it totally depends..
     
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    I'm thinking about how much I want him...
     
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