What is this nonsense? What actually happened is: I asked you two pertinent questions, and you refused to answer them. I can only assume that you are embarrassed by the answers because they would support my argument. It's fine if you don't want to answer, but don't pretend this all about me and some unprecedented ideal that exists only in my own head.
Dude, I rolled my eyes because you are hopelessly projecting your issues onto other people and I thought continuing to talk to you was pointless.
I never slept with him again and I didn't speak to him for over a decade. How's that for an appropriate reaction to an asshole?
And no, no one warned me about him. I knew that he had issues with other women in the past, but who hasn't had relationship issues, and we had been friends for about 5 years, so I wasn't expecting him to treat me badly.
Seriously you have issues. Don't date anyone until you can stop inflicting your issues on other people.
You really are insecure about your point of view or else you wouldn't be pushing it so hard on other people. Studies have shown that people who lack confidence about a belief try the hardest to convince others that it's true. This has been shown to be true with various cult groups, members who are the most insecure about the wacky beliefs push their logic the hardest on others, whereas those most confident about their wacky beliefs are okay if others don't agree with them.