What happened to your ex.?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by dongalong, Jan 21, 2007.

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What happened to your ex?

  1. He/she became your best buddy

    4 vote(s)
    6.2%
  2. he/she became your fuck buddy

    9 vote(s)
    13.8%
  3. He/she desperately wants you back or is still angry that you dumped him/her

    30 vote(s)
    46.2%
  4. He/she left you for someone else

    9 vote(s)
    13.8%
  5. Don't know, lost contact

    24 vote(s)
    36.9%
  1. dongalong

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    What happened to your ex? multiple choice answers are possible
     
  2. stretcher74

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    looks like a denial thread
     
  3. karmen

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    My ex still wants to get back together. He's turned into a bit of a stalker.
    However, he seems to have started to accept the fact that we will never have ANY type of relationship.

    It's too bad that it's taken almost 2 years for him to reach that conclusion. I definately wish him nothing but happiness and fulfilment in his future relationship(s).

    Hugs and Kisses,

    Karmen
     
  4. D_Thoraxis_Biggulp

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    I'm pretty sure my ex wants me back, or atleast regrets who she's ended up with since leaving me.
     
  5. D_Harry_Crax

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    which one?
     
  6. D_Thoraxis_Biggulp

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    The only one I'm still in contact with. Oddly enough, she was the first girl I dated, too. Been 6 years, and we've been in and out of contact since then.
     
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    I voted for all except the first one. I've remained friends with a couple of my ex girlfriends, but I've never been what you would call "best buddies" with any of them.
     
  8. chicagosam

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    Mutual self-serviced through the membership of LPSG!:biggrin1:
     
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    I took her to the Yukon on a ski trip where she was kidnapped by Sasquatch,I looked for her for at least 7 minutes before I had to leave.A few days later, there was a knock at my door. It was Mr Abe Snowman screaming NNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Take her back PPPPlllleeaasseeeeeee!!! I said"Tough shit,Bub,she's ALL yours now!
    .........................Mr Ed in Ma.
     
  10. Whopper-lee

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    My ex divorced me for incompatibility, spousal and sexual abuse.
    She had a female attorney and we went infront of a female judge.
    It was most embrassing for me during the legal proceedings.
    There were other people sitting in the court room waiting for their proceedings to take place for a divorce also.
    During my ex's testimony, she cried in the court room and stated that I had an enormous size penis and brutalize her with it during love making with her. She said she felt forced and raped every night in bed with me.
    Her attorney asked her to state to the court approximately how large...
    5,6,7,8? My ex said he's every bit of 10 to 11 inches long with an erection.
    Some guy in the court blurred out "Damn" that started everybody in the court room taking and some laughter to the point the judge sounded her
    gavel down and said order in this court.
    Her attorney then ask her to tell and explain to the courts how I would brutalize during sex.
    She pulled out some medical records and pictures that stated she had to have rectal surgery after I came home one night drunk and forced her to have anal sex peneratration; and I ripped her open with my penis.
    Once again, the people in the court started talking and whispering loudly.
    I even heard a women behind me, I couldn't see, but said, he's a stone freck!"
    The judge then decided to move our case into her private chambers to finish the proceedings.

    As I was leaving the court room and turn around in front of those sitting in the court room, I felt every eye on me below and above my belt. Funny, one guy even gave me a thumbs' up and winked his eye at me as I walked passed him. But, it was not a good experience.

    I was ordered to pay spousal support, child support, and attend a sex counselling and behavioral management course 4-12 months in place of jail time. I did it. It's all behind me now (no pun intended).
    She's remarried. We've had to have some contact with one another because we have a son together, but that's it.
    I guess she's pretty happy and satisfied with the d**K, she's with now!
    I really don't give a damn, as Clark Gable said in, Gone in the Wind.
    Thanks for asking, man!
    Be Safe, Be Careful, and Enjoy!
    Whopper-lee
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  11. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I went with... :He/she desperately wants you back or is still angry that you dumped him/her
     
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    Mine would have me back in a heartbeat. I do feel slightly uneasy about that. i see her as just a good friend and by god has she been a good friend since I had my spinal operation and came out of hospital. She's really looked after me.
     
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    That's great that you had someone there with you through that.
     
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    You are a fortunate man. I firmly believe that one can never have too many friends. And it's definately the type of situation that I hoped for with my ex-lover--btw, our relationship was about 8.5 years long.

    I tried to stay friends with my ex but he insisted on a sexual relationship plus he would run hot and cold (emotionally speaking). It was an unnecessary and wild roller coaster of emotions.

    Finally and regretfully, I decided that I wouldn't accept any "friend" who acted like that. I do miss him in my life but am now much happier since we have extremely limited contact.

    Hugs and Kisses,

    Karmen
     
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    *wonders which would be the best category to tick for "faked his own death"* :rolleyes:

    Actually not a joke. :cool:
     
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    You faked your own death to get out a relationship??? *laughs* that bad eh..
     
  17. Ethyl

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    1. Lost contact
    2. Lost contact/very recently became friends again
    3. In touch but no real friendship exists
    4. In touch with a tentative friendship
     
  18. Mr. Snakey

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    Ex wife - We get along great. Ex girlfriend killed in a car crash many years ago. Still put flowers on her grave. My girlfiend now is understanding about this. Sometimes i still cry over her when my girl friend isnt around . I never got a chance to say goodbye to her and it hurts.......
     
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    I'm really sorry to hear that. *hugs*
     
  20. DGirl

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    my ex..."

    I HAVE NO clue what happened to that ASS HOLE..":eek:
     
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