What happens after you die?
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Yeah, but what happens to the ounce of good weed you got stashed in your nightstand, the assorted pornos, dildoes, and other sex hardware you got.
What if you are a compulsive hoarder, and your family goes in to clean out your house, and have to call proffessionals?
That's what the OP is really asking.
When I die, I want my organs donated, and to be cremated. My soul will move on, and that's that.
What if you are a compulsive hoarder, and your family goes in to clean out your house, and have to call proffessionals?
That's what the OP is really asking.
When I die, I want my organs donated, and to be cremated. My soul will move on, and that's that.
most of my high-end gear already has a god-mother/father/boy who'll get everything.
would probably be my hand-picked family, not my biological one, going through my belongings and final affairs.
some of my collector stuffs will go to the leather museum.
heaps to charity. to be auctioned off, or used as needed.
hopefully loved ones will be able to get the items they have some personal attachment to.
the rest... recycled or upcycled if possible.
would probably be my hand-picked family, not my biological one, going through my belongings and final affairs.
some of my collector stuffs will go to the leather museum.
heaps to charity. to be auctioned off, or used as needed.
hopefully loved ones will be able to get the items they have some personal attachment to.
the rest... recycled or upcycled if possible.
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All hail the Carbon Cycle!
As for the things, it's a fantasy of mine that I could be using great grandma's dildo. Why not, instead of the liqueur glasses or something else? I inherited bed linens once.
That has been happening, but the poster is partly to blame: the thread title suggests an entirely different question from the one that he meant to ask, namely "What happens to one after one dies?" as contrasted with "What will happen (in the world) after you die?"
I do wonder about that sometimes. It would all depend on whether anyone undertook to look up what is on my computer. If any of my surviving siblings discovered my Tumblr site, say, I think that they would wish that they hadn't. But I don't think that anyone would bother. Apart from what is on the computer, there isn't anything shocking to discover.
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As a doctor in Oncology, I have seen many people die. What I have noticed quite often, is that the dying seem to recognise "someone" or "something" out of sight to those present. The ones who do experience this, seem surprised, but ALWAYS happy about this, and then let go easily. I believe life carries one; basic Physics tells us that energy cannot be created or destroyed - it just changes state/phase. I have also had a few experiences that are too personal too share, but that convince me that this brief life is not the end. Just my opinion, and I hope it helps. My condolences to you and your family for your loss. Conor
I believe the same thing. I'm convinced we keep coming back (as ourselves) and keep re-living life until we get it right.
Ever wonder why we get deja vu?
Depends on your sense of humour.....You could leave a lot of stuff laying around of all sorts....Bibles, huge posters of middle eastern religious fanatics.
Not to take away or make light of the fact you lost a cousin..my sincere sympathy mate.
Not to take away or make light of the fact you lost a cousin..my sincere sympathy mate.
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It's from the crematoriums, we breathe in parts of dead and decaying bodies everyday. there have been trillions die throughout the ages. Their residue exists everywhere. Maybe there is some sort of data contained in that residue. Nahhhh,
I believe we come back as well until we get it right, if you try to cut it short on purpose, what has not been finished will come back with you next time to make it more difficult.It's from the crematoriums, we breathe in parts of dead and decaying bodies everyday. there have been trillions die throughout the ages. Their residue exists everywhere. Maybe there is some sort of data contained in that residue. Nahhhh,
This is a serious question. I've heard your view from different various sources over the years but I've never heard anyone address what happens when you finally get it all finished. Or, does that not ever happen?
I've been steeped for 55 years in the Baptist doctrine. The more I study or search the more I discover what I don't believe anymore, as opposed to finding stronger reasons to hold onto what I have felt strongly about before. It is not a comfortable situation to be in.
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There are some people we meet through life, probably for only the briefest of moments, yet something they say stays with you for the rest of your life. it's not only what they say but how they say it. I remember being 17 or 18 years old, surf fishing at Fingal beach Northern New South Wales.
There was one other person/fisherman on this huge beach, a fellow about 50 or so. I was watching him cast his line out into the surf and amazed how far it went compared to mine. So I walked upand asked him to show me what he was doing so different. He was quiet happy to help me out. After a few stuff ups, I managed to finally get it, and away it went. While I was trying I was berating myself for the mistakes I was making. He just said "one of the most important signs of maturity and learning is to admit your own mistakes".
It has stuck with me all this time. When I look back now I remember it quite clearly and for some reason I get this feeling that it was his last time around. Why I think that, buggered if I know. Perhaps it was just the surroundings. A little deep and way out for the likes of lpsg
Who gives a rats arse With regards to the question of what happens after that, Im still philosophising on that one
if I come up with any ideas or theories I'll let ya know, and vice versa I hope.These are my suggestions, along with practical advice and humor:
1. Make sure you Desktop has no reference to sexual overtures, e.g., LPSG and other sites. Even so, people need your password to get in -- unless they are computer hacks, who can override the system.
2. Tell everyone before you pass, what they will likely find in your apartment.
3. Ask your priest/pastor for a pardon/absolution before you die. In any event, he/she will not be shocked, when the family utters: "do you know what I found in his apartment?" Ah, yeah, the priest/pastor can pretend to be shocked. Please, pastor/priest, no reference of his/her unsavory, fornicating, adultery ways in your sermon at the church or the funeral home.
4. Take everything down off of walls, refrigerators, ceilings that might indicate your house was a house-of-freaks, instead of a house of prayer (church references). Have crucifiexs, Jesus with His lambs, a picture of Jesus, and the Ten Commandments on your wall, anyway. Of course, leave pictures all over the house, referencing people in purgatory, hell -- burning for their sinful ways: the family will love it -- except atheists.
5. Make sure your swinging friends do not leave messages on your answering machines.
6. Delete all messages (I surely do) when people call, except: family, close friends, medical personnel, or human resources' referrals (if you are out of work).
7. Finally, do not have anything on it that might be disconcerting...then, you never know when you are going to die, anyway.
8. If you are gay, let the family know before (a.k.a. AIDS scare in the 80s) -- before you pass away -- just in case they find mens' porno magazines, chains, and whips lying around.
Gee, I hope some of these suggestions may help.
1. Make sure you Desktop has no reference to sexual overtures, e.g., LPSG and other sites. Even so, people need your password to get in -- unless they are computer hacks, who can override the system.
2. Tell everyone before you pass, what they will likely find in your apartment.
3. Ask your priest/pastor for a pardon/absolution before you die. In any event, he/she will not be shocked, when the family utters: "do you know what I found in his apartment?" Ah, yeah, the priest/pastor can pretend to be shocked. Please, pastor/priest, no reference of his/her unsavory, fornicating, adultery ways in your sermon at the church or the funeral home.
4. Take everything down off of walls, refrigerators, ceilings that might indicate your house was a house-of-freaks, instead of a house of prayer (church references). Have crucifiexs, Jesus with His lambs, a picture of Jesus, and the Ten Commandments on your wall, anyway. Of course, leave pictures all over the house, referencing people in purgatory, hell -- burning for their sinful ways: the family will love it -- except atheists.
5. Make sure your swinging friends do not leave messages on your answering machines.
6. Delete all messages (I surely do) when people call, except: family, close friends, medical personnel, or human resources' referrals (if you are out of work).
7. Finally, do not have anything on it that might be disconcerting...then, you never know when you are going to die, anyway.
8. If you are gay, let the family know before (a.k.a. AIDS scare in the 80s) -- before you pass away -- just in case they find mens' porno magazines, chains, and whips lying around.
Gee, I hope some of these suggestions may help.
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What happens if you die suddenly, like say in an accident or something.
All of that is hard to do. What I'd do is to make sure my place is kept as clean as possible, All of the naughty stuff is in one particular place.
Then, I'd have one trusted friend who knows what's up, to come in and deal with it.
I remember reading a post on a blog one time about a guy whose brother had passed away from a long illness. As he and his father were cleaning out the brother's closed, they found some anal beads. The father didn't know what they were, and the guy didn't enlighten him, but he found it funny that his brother had anal beads in the back of his closet.
So, if you died tomorrow, what would your family find in the back of your closet?
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That is just it. The back of my closet seems to be expanding into the rest of the house and I have episodes of 'wtf who cares what they think?'
I think after an illness people, especially those who live alone, don't have the energy for tidying. That Thickjohnny's relative's place was a big mess likely said tons about the last few weeks of his life, and I would surmise that at time of death he was not in a snit about the dirt levels, or whether his socks were folded.
It's a great mental discipline to be ready for death at any moment though. Remember the great 'mom' wisdom-- wear clean undies in case you are hit by a bus...
I think after an illness people, especially those who live alone, don't have the energy for tidying. That Thickjohnny's relative's place was a big mess likely said tons about the last few weeks of his life, and I would surmise that at time of death he was not in a snit about the dirt levels, or whether his socks were folded.
It's a great mental discipline to be ready for death at any moment though. Remember the great 'mom' wisdom-- wear clean undies in case you are hit by a bus...
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I think after an illness people, especially those who live alone, don't have the energy for tidying.
So true helga, me included in that.
Place is clean tidy and functional, apart from whats on the laptops, well that can be destroyed, as i have asked brothers to do.
tbh
i am not overly fussed what takes place on demise, brothers have a clear indication of where i am at,and i am quite positive they will clear my junk .. that is the disposable stuff, give ALL of it to charity, and discreetly say no more
Thats the respect earned i guess
Such is the life i have let them know of me.
So true helga, me included in that.
Place is clean tidy and functional, apart from whats on the laptops, well that can be destroyed, as i have asked brothers to do.
tbh
i am not overly fussed what takes place on demise, brothers have a clear indication of where i am at,and i am quite positive they will clear my junk .. that is the disposable stuff, give ALL of it to charity, and discreetly say no more
Thats the respect earned i guess
Such is the life i have let them know of me.
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I really don't give it a lot of thought. Once I am dead it woun't matter. I have had health scares where I was taken to the hospital and had people enter my home while I was away because there were things I needed. I was more concerned about getting better and most adults are aware that we are people and have sexual urges, male or female, gay or bisexual or heterosexual.
