What Happens In A Strip Club?

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My wife and I drove past a billboard on the highway for a strip club this afternoon. She asked me "so do guys just sit around with hard-ons and cum in their pants while watching?" I've never been to a strip club nor have my friends (that I know of.) I told her my guess was most guys were flirting, drinking and socializing but, unless they had a "private" session, weren't getting off at the club. I said most likely they went home to masturbate later.

Our conversation got me curious. If you've been to a strip club, I'd love to know what goes on so I can pass your experiences on to my wife. Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences.

On a side note, her question brought back a crazy memory: I had an unexpected experience traveling years ago when a woman stripped down at a club and started masturbating on the dance floor. That was totally unexpected!
 

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The club by me in Iowa, they mainly strip and get naked. Give them dollar bills and get some tits rubbed in you face. You are NOT allowed to touch them though.

They have private "lap dances" in a back room. Never had one of those, but I suspect handjobs, blowjobs and even sex would be possible. Would depend on the girl and how much you were willing to pay.

Only been to one once with my Daughter. The stripper's encouraged her to get on stage and strip, for amateur night. She refused, being with Dad. I gave her the same respect, and did not do in for a pap dance.
 
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My wife and I drove past a billboard on the highway for a strip club this afternoon. She asked me "so do guys just sit around with hard-ons and cum in their pants while watching?" I've never been to a strip club nor have my friends (that I know of.) I told her my guess was most guys were flirting, drinking and socializing but, unless they had a "private" session, weren't getting off at the club. I said most likely they went home to masturbate later.

Our conversation got me curious. If you've been to a strip club, I'd love to know what goes on so I can pass your experiences on to my wife. Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences.

On a side note, her question brought back a crazy memory: I had an unexpected experience traveling years ago when a woman stripped down at a club and started masturbating on the dance floor. That was totally unexpected!
In some cases, your wife might be right. There's likely been more than a few sonic booms that went off in guys' pants while watching shows.

I haven't been in one since 2001, so I can't speak for how they must be nowadays; especially with coronavirus here.

My experience might have been atypical since I was brought with male friends as a tag-along and I would have to use a hundred dollar bill on a string to even elicit a glance of feigned interest. They play shitty, Top 40 music at loud volumes and there's a two drink minimum at them (probably to account for the lack of revenue from all the lookie-loos who sit and watch all day). Typically ladies take turns dancing to a song or two onstage while guys place dollar bills in their g-strings and hoot and holler (always Lysol those dollar bills, folks!). Dancers patrol the floor and ask rando guys if they want a dance. This involves the guy sitting while the dancer grinds her boobs on his face and ass in his lap for a song's length to the tune of $10 or $20 a pop. Depending on the club, they may have more stringent rules about contact and she may only be allowed to do this with a foot of space between her and the customer. Especially if there's a constipated looking bouncer with no neck nearby with a watchful eye and prison tats.

If there's a "private" session afterwards, it likely involves hooking afterwards with one of the dancers for the right price. (I.e., bumping fuzzies at a cheap hotel or the customer's house).

Most of your clientele consist of:

50% old pensioners with lots of free time and cash on them. These will typically be the ones who monopolize the dancers' time.

30% young horny dudes who are as drunk as a lumberjack on payday and very loud.

20% random guys mixed with the occasional lady.

Keep in mind this data comes from twenty years ago; they may be different now.
 
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What goes on inside a club depends on what kind of club you’re walking into. I’ve been to some sketchy places that are basically brothels where you can see the goods before you buy, some that are just party bars with nude women, and others that serve 4* food to drug dealers and high rollers that could care less about the woman taking off her ball gown behind them. You’d have to visit a few to get a feel for what type of establishment it is-but there’s definitely some easy to read clues.
 

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Thank you, I've learned a lot hearing your experiences and will pass this on. @T_Lurch, your well written descriptions lead me to believe I've not missed much at all. @DoctorD , I wouldn't have thought there was such diversity in the clubs but now I can easily imagine it.
 
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The club by me in Iowa, they mainly strip and get naked. Give them dollar bills and get some tits rubbed in you face. You are NOT allowed to touch them though.

They have private "lap dances" in a back room. Never had one of those, but I suspect handjobs, blowjobs and even sex would be possible. Would depend on the girl and how much you were willing to pay.

Only been to one once with my Daughter. The stripper's encouraged her to get on stage and strip, for amateur night. She refused, being with Dad. I gave her the same respect, and did not do in for a pap dance.
Wait a minute, taking daughter to strip club?
 

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Sure did, her and a younger friend that was only 20 years old, so she could not drink and we had a designated driver! LOL

They were bored one Sat night. I was grilling and offered them to come eat with us. My old woman had to work early the next day. "Jokingly" I said you should take the old man to the strip joint a few miles down the road. They discussed and Daughter said Dad, you would have to pay our $20 admission fee, we don't have money.

Done deal. Loaded up a cooler with beer and wine coolers. Grabbed probably $100 worth of $1 bills and off we went! Bring your own booze joint, they do not sell it there. The old woman was slightly pissed, but she got over it. We had lot's of fun.
 

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It depends on the club but mainly just a lot of rubbing on main floor. Need to go to private rooms for other things. Hand jobs are quite frequent in private room....I have gotten a blowjob with a oral condoms from one stripper...she wanted my number because love my size. I have also had a stripper in back room "accidentally while pulling my pants do, plunge herself onto my cock....she immediately left as I think she came a bit...but that is not the norm.
 

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I’d been in strip clubs maybe 8-10 times in my life and not at all for the past 25-30 years.

They were never as fun or as exciting as we expected them to be.

We’d pay a cover, order the required beer that was way overpriced, and watch the dancer for a few minutes. Then we’d get back to whatever the conversation was before we walked in. Then the next dancer would come out, we’d take a look, and then ignore her all over again. This repeated until we got tired of the overpriced beer and would leave for somewhere less cringey, less expensive, and more fun.

There would always be a few guys sitting by themselves, just absolutely mesmerized by the dancers. I always felt sorry for them.
 

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Depends on the joint. I spent a lotta time in strip clubs both visiting and working security. Some of the sleazier ones definitely have shit going on in the lap dance rooms. Handjobs, blowjobs If u wanna pay enough. Plenty of em will fuck you at your place if you pay enough. Either with $$, drugs or both. Never did that myself.

That goes on in even some of the more upscale clubs too. Comes down to the individual girl and what shes willing to do. Lot of the strippers I've known/dated etc always would point out the chicks that were known to turn tricks for the right $$.
 

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It depends on the club but mainly just a lot of rubbing on main floor. Need to go to private rooms for other things. Hand jobs are quite frequent in private room....I have gotten a blowjob with a oral condoms from one stripper...she wanted my number because love my size. I have also had a stripper in back room "accidentally while pulling my pants do, plunge herself onto my cock....she immediately left as I think she came a bit...but that is not the norm.
Damn, I have never got handjob or oral at the club.
 

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I've been to a local strip club a few times but not that many. It really gets expensive at those places.

So the place I went to, had a bar and I talked to the girls. Find one that you like and they gave me a full contact dance. A crotch grind for one song.

My cousin in south america was a stripper for a short time. I think about 6 - 9 months. She told me the money was really good because there many foreign tourists from US especially. Would sell them a $15 bottle of whiskey for $75. And over charge on the lap dances. Then go to the bank with wads of cash in her bra and undergarments to make the deposit...LOL

However, she tells me there are lots and lots of creeps. They would cum in their pants when she would dance for them. Or pull out their dicks and start jerking off in front of her. Propose to have sex with her (she's not a prostitute). And the last straw is when one guy wanted her to go to his place for the weekend (more prostitution). The idea of getting kidnapped and being someone's sex slave was to much. She quit after that incident.
 

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If you've been to a strip club, I'd love to know what goes on so I can pass your experiences on to my wife. Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences.
Strip club experiences can vary widely in the US, with rules that are quite different from state to state. Also what 'era' needs to be taken in context, as things change over time.

My own experiences in the 1980 and 1990s:
Massachusetts - strip clubs have full alcohol licensees and the women strip to fully nude. They cannot do anything sexual to themselves and there is no contact allowed between the dancers and the customers.
In later years when Lap Dancing became popular, clubs would let the ladies dance and strip close to you as 'table dances' but all contact was (and provably still is) forbidden. I've never visited or even heard of a Mass club that had any kind of private rooms.

Rhode Island -
The (mostly mob owned) strip clubs had full alcohol licenses and the ladies could strip down to topless, leaving some kind of bikini, g-string or panty bottom in place. Customers weren't allowed to touch the ladies, but you could get titties in your face while tipping, and put money in their garters. Some busty women would retrieve your tip by squeezing your hand between their boobs while they took the money. Others would also put their butts thisclose to your face while making their way around the stage-side seats.
There may have been some private or VIP areas, but those were way beyond my budget.

New York City - (pre Giuliani (1994))
The traditional strip clubs I visited were similar to Rhode Island, full alcohol, topless only. I don't remember any kind of private or VIP area, but again, if they existed, they were beyond my budget. When getting a lapdance, the dancer could grind her butt into you a little bit, and tease you by getting her breasts thisclose to your face as she gyrated in front of you, but your hands had to be firmly on your chair or the bench you were sitting on. One beauty with an amazing ass was definitely okay with my hands on my thighs coming in contact with her butt as she was dancing for me, but a bouncer said "no touching"! After he moved on she smiled as my fingers grazed her ass cheeks and thighs as they just-so-happened to pass by my hands.

Also available in NYC at the time were "lap dance clubs" in out-of-the-way locations in old buildings. You paid a cover, there was no food or beverage service of any kind, but there were a few dozen "lap dancers" that solicited dancers while one of them would dance on the small stage. The places had dozens of easy chairs all over and were very dimly lit. You found a seat, sat down and a parade of women would ask you if you wanted a dance. The rule of the house was that there was no touching of any covered area, and all the ladies were topless, wearing panties or bikini bottoms. Most had tops or scarves on to keep themselves covered until you paid for a dance. You paid for a dance, or two, or three, and they would climb right into you lap and start grinding. Boobs in your face? Feel free to caress and suck on them if you wish. Many would stand between your open legs and 'coincidently' rub their leg up against your groin while their boobs were in your face.

Needless to say, I oved these places! Where else did you get to 'second base' and have a woman dry hump you a few seconds after meeting her?
 

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It REALLY depends on where you are. I'm from Montana originally, and the strip club we went to when I was in college was basically just a like any other bar. There just happened to be naked women dancing in the middle and the servers were topless. There were poker tables and everything. Sure, there was the "pervert aisle" up front to the stage with people (men and women) giving the dancers tips, but for the most part it wasn't much different than a regular bar.

Lap dances there were pretty chill, just go back to a room and get rubbed through your pants. I enjoyed the looks on their faces when they could feel me through my jeans.

I now currently live in Washington state and, my god, strip clubs here are sad. There is no drinking in them. When i first moved here a buddy of mine and I went to one and I was shocked at how...sad they are. $15 cover, 3 drink minimum (Water, Red Bull and Soda all $10 each) It was the only time in my life I walked into a room knowing without a doubt I was the most attractive man in the room. haha. Just sad sad people there.

I have gone to two strip clubs in Mexico and all I can say is that there are no rules down there. The first one I went to, the woman danced to 3 songs. Fully naked by the end of the first one, masturbating with a bottle after the second and blowing a guy while giving hand jobs to 2 other guys after the 3rd. haha. It was bonkers. The other one I went to down there was a bit less wild, but still $20 to fuck most any girl you wanted in the back room. I didn't partake in that, not my thing.
 

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It REALLY depends on where you are. I'm from Montana originally, and the strip club we went to when I was in college was basically just a like any other bar. There just happened to be naked women dancing in the middle and the servers were topless. There were poker tables and everything. Sure, there was the "pervert aisle" up front to the stage with people (men and women) giving the dancers tips, but for the most part it wasn't much different than a regular bar.

Lap dances there were pretty chill, just go back to a room and get rubbed through your pants. I enjoyed the looks on their faces when they could feel me through my jeans.

I now currently live in Washington state and, my god, strip clubs here are sad. There is no drinking in them. When i first moved here a buddy of mine and I went to one and I was shocked at how...sad they are. $15 cover, 3 drink minimum (Water, Red Bull and Soda all $10 each) It was the only time in my life I walked into a room knowing without a doubt I was the most attractive man in the room. haha. Just sad sad people there.

I have gone to two strip clubs in Mexico and all I can say is that there are no rules down there. The first one I went to, the woman danced to 3 songs. Fully naked by the end of the first one, masturbating with a bottle after the second and blowing a guy while giving hand jobs to 2 other guys after the 3rd. haha. It was bonkers. The other one I went to down there was a bit less wild, but still $20 to fuck most any girl you wanted in the back room. I didn't partake in that, not my thing.
I need to go to Mexico
 
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I have never fucked a stripper in the club. I have tried to get phone number or info to fuck them later. But never got sex that way.

The only time able to fuck was stripper was one time one of the girl was leaving work high and needed a ride home. Once I got her back to her apartment she did more drugs and I fucked her all night.
 
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New York Gentleman's clubs / Strip Clubs. I have not been to one in 20 plus years . But aside from the cover charge , the mark up on the drinks it is just performers dancing and trying to get tips.

Yes, if you want to have fun, you need to bring money with you.
No, not for sex 99% sure that will not happen, unless you are famous / Rich; or good looking and talk a really good game . Even this would probably happen outside and away from the club. Owners will not risk their operators licenses / Liquor licenses so you can get laid

Depending on if alcohol is served and the location, the dancers will probably not be 100% nude. So unless you are paying for a lap dance / spending a boat load of money , you just sit and watch ladies dance in their underwear