What has changed in your wank?

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  1. ottosafado

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    What has changed over the years in your wank / jerkoff session?
    Do you masturbate in the same way today as you did years ago?
    what has changed in your orgams, session time, pornographic material ...?

    would you be able to tell if it has improved or worsened the quality of your wank?
     
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    Man what a loaded question !

    As a long foreskinned uncut, I just slid the skin up/down without it getting tugged tight in either direction.

    As semi cut, I had to pull skin up to get over head and it would stretch before skin stopped going up, and on the downstroke, the skin would get tugged down tight. Same apparent up/down movement so up/down instinct unchanged, but had to use some force to pull skin up instead of just sliding it.

    After going for full circ, the uncut instinct remained for a while and even if I would start by rubbing head/shaft, once I got close, the brain would instinctively revert to trying to move skin up/down and that killed orgasm because it justd doesn't work well. Once I lost that instinct (took a couple of months) then I wanked like a cut guy all th way to the end and it was much better.

    I find there are more variations how I wank now. Sometimes grab shaft such that hand is just under rim and the litte movement lets my hand rub on rim. If I use lube, then it is longer strokes sliding over head and shaft. And sometimes when dry, I do the same.
     
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    Being that I have restored, it has changed quite a lot. While in my teens, I rubbed my shaft and head, now, I use the sleeve and foreskin to do the rubbing and rarely touch my head. So, out of function change, my jacking off has changed.

    While I do go back and forth on both methods depending on my motivations, rubbing directly can be a pretty intense process.

    Mine has improved.

    Also, I always edge when I jack off now, unless for some reason I’m trying to get it over with.
     
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    As far as I'm concerned, having started to masturbate at the beginning of adolescence, various things have changed over time. Specifically, especially two are those worthy of note. First of all, the ability to ejaculate that I didn't possess initially (sperm production initiates with puberty). Beyond that, as the years go by, each of us has knowledge of the own organs, own body and how it reacts to stimuli: for me it was the same. Another important thing is the possibility, being uncircumcised, to completely retract the foreskin and to uncover the glans (with the flaccid penis and when it is erect). All these variations, have led to change my masturbation technique. For example, I always masturbate with the glans uncovered and besides I like to rub it on some soft surface (sheet, pillow etc.). In terms of changes in the genital system, surely now there is a greater elasticity of the foreskin and a lower sensitivity of the glans. After all, the only things that have remained almost equal, are the duration of masturbation and the type of ejaculation (associated with the consistency of the sperm, in my case rather watery). Today I can say that masturbation, considering the sensations and techniques, has improved compared to the first times...
     
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    I believe that before I masturbated just to "unload". my sessions did not last long. lasted 3 or 5 minutes. In the puberty years they were very fast, but I got 8 on the same day.
    My orgasms now is better. I ejaculate more quantity, even because I get a few days without masturbating. Today I can control how I want my orgasms and my cum.
    My penis is less sensitive, but I usually have more problems with my frenulum (this sometimes gets more senile than normal or gets micro injuries ... maybe for the strength that I do more). I play more with my penis, I know that well. but I need a bigger stimulus to stay hard and horny. Another thing that has changed, now I blame myself for masturbating, for example: "I could be studying, working, exercising or fucking ..."
     
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    In young years I had a long forsekin. I masturbated daly 3 till 5 times. I was cut because I had a phimosis after to rugh sex and masturbation. After THE cut masturbation was never the same
     
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    My right hand jerk motion has remained the same, however, I learned to work the prostate for explosive cum thumping edge sessions...yea, add edging too. I never did that years ago.
     
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    So, would you consider restoring?
     
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    Because I was single a lot of years and used to wank a lot IV noticed during sex i tend to cum quicker
    My girlfriend has noticed and iv said that it's an age related thing,but I do make sure she's well catered by going down on her a lot
    Which isn't a bad thing as I really enjoy that
     
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    I've started to realize enjoyment while stroking my semi-rigid cock. For many years I've prolonged my masturbation sessions for "endurance" test purposes. In my youth I always desired to give my female partners their multi-orgasms. Since I don't have multiple partners anymore, I prolong my sessions purely for personal pleasures. Complete recovery from orgasm usually takes at least 12 hours nowadays:(.
     
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    I started off in my early teens purely with my cock between my legs, lying face down and rubbing up against something...the edge of a counter, a bookshelf, etc.
    Then I discovered proper right hand action, up near the head.
     
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    I used to masturbate a lot, but about a year ago I stopped because I didn't see the point in it any longer.

    Things have started up again, but I edge (sometimes for an hour or more) and don't cum unless by mistake. I don't get any pains or anything and can go days without doing it. I don't particularly like the mindset change that happens immediately after cumming, I'd rather stay amped up.

    I've experimented with aneros and that's something I want to do more of (especially milking).
     
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    Well the main thing that's changed has been the length of time I can jerk off for. Gone are the days when I could have a long wanking session. Not I'm done in a minute or so. It's also like this with sex too.
    Porn wise, I've don't really get off on teen women like I used to, it's all MILF's now. And although I've always enjoyed gay porn, it's now more the norm for me than straight pornography.
     
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    A few things have changed for me, and they all make wanking more enjoyable.
    1. Privacy. Now that I have my own place, I can wank whenever and wherever I want to, without having to worry about someone walking in, planning my wanking around someone else's schedule, or faking like I'm taking a shower, or anything like that.
    2. Toys. Now I have a small collection, and they make wanking much more interesting.
    3. Porn variety. I grew up with internet porn, but it was mostly professional content. Now, most of what I see and like is random people making videos, which is more exciting and authentic, and generally free too.
     
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    the movement from the hand to the Fleshlight
     
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    Fleshlights are great!
     
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    Longer time and more edging
     
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    Frequency.

    Not nearly as often as I used to (or should).
     
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    Lots of things have changed for me. When I was younger, it was common for me to jack off at least 5 times a day. But on days when I was super horny and had the time, I would jack off constantly through the day. There were numerous days that I would jack off at least 15 times that day. I didn't know about lube back then, so it wasn't unusual for me to jack off so much that I would rub my dick raw. And I would jack off to ANYTHING! The Sears catalog, advertisement in the newspaper showing guys in swimsuits, the 1950's church book explaining the birds and the bees (which really didn't explain anything), or just a fantasy I had about guys in my class. I would go as fast as I could and try to shoot it right away. I didn't know about edging or taking my time. If I was still horny, I would just do it again. And when I was done, I would always wipe up with an old sock under my bed.

    Now that I am older, I am lucky if I jack off 5 times in a week. When I do jack off, it is usually right before I go to bed. I will put on a cockring, find a good porn on the laptop, grab the lube and start working my dick over. I try to time to time the orgasm with the porn, so when I get close, I will slow down and edge. When they shoot on the screen, I will shoot my load. And to clean up, I will run my fingers through the cum and then lick my fingers.

    The one thing that is the same, is how I handle my dick. I always use the index finger, middle finger and thumb of my right hand to jack off. I will concentrate on the area right below the head, but occasionally I will go up and down the entire length a few times for a different feel. I rarely ever grab it with my whole fist. And I cannot get off if I use my left hand. That is how I have been doing it my entire masturbating life.
     
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    When I first discovered how to wank at about age 12, I'd do it by grabbing the tip of my dick between my thumb and forefinger, then sliding the foreskin halfway down the head, and then back up again. Shortly after that I switched to grabbing my dick with my whole fist and repeating the same motion.

    As I got older my strokes became longer, and I'd pull the skin all the way back, fully exposing the head each time.

    Gradually I switched from using my dominant hand to the other, as my wanking began to occur mostly in front of internet porn, and I needed that hand free to use the touchpad on my laptop.

    I began to edge more and more, as a way of jerking off without having to deal with the messy clean up of cumming.

    I experimented with different ways of jerking off. Sometimes I'd pull the skin back and then just pump it along the length of the shaft, without ever letting it roll over the head. I'd try rubbing the head directly using something as lubricant, which initially was way too sensitive.

    I went through a period where occasionally I'd pull back my foreskin and gently stroke the head of my dick with my dry hand, and I steadily found myself doing this more and more often, to the point where this is almost exclusively how I wank now. I hardly ever use my foreskin during masturbation any more, and I very rarely use lube, unless I'm using a Fleshjack.

    Sometimes I like to wear a ball stretcher, as the tension on the scrotum pulls the shaft skin down and smooths out the folds of the retracted foreskin.
     
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