funny how that works, and how often it's abused.My last relationship went on for nine (almost ten) years, though it really should have ended after the first four. The reasons were complex, much like the relationship itself, but in the end it can be boiled down to this: I felt a greater responsibility to him than to myself.
funny how that works, and how often it's abused.
instinct, manipulation or a society created guilt trip?
so what was the turning point?Actually, it was all three: a perfect storm of guilt.
i guess that's pretty straight forward...Fear of being alone.
i used to get that in my teens.i seem to attract the stalker/othello types..i am awesome at the break up. brutal with the break up. i just can't get the disposed of individual to leave me alone.. long after i have broken up and gone on with life, the crazy bastards keep calling me.. pestering.... causing drama for the friends circle and my sleep patterns. (why do stalkers love calling when they know you are a sleep? fuckers :irked
good for you!He was very controlling and violent.
Feel very silly now for putting up with it for so long.
Much better now tho, am doing my own thing and am back to my old happy self!
i used to get that in my teens.
these days they just make a token effort.
you've made me wonder once more if the flowers i keep getting are from an ex...
might not be an ex though.creepy Ex presents.. eewww. all evil and manipulative and an attempt to obligate.
i am distrustful of strangers bearing gifts.. see the above. and check the vase for hidden cameras or microphones. :smile: